orioles1744 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 Here is another worry in my relationship. Me and my gf would message each other all day because we could at our jobs now that I started my new job I can't message her all day. I'm afraid that she is going to message someone else because I am not giving her the attention that I use to give her she told me this is nothing to worry about. She use to talk to me when she was with her ex but she wasn't in love with him and he never made time for her. I need advice I'm not brining it up to her anymore because I don't want to upset her. Her daughter who's 6 loves me and her parents do to which they have never liked anyone like this before. Please help thanks.
Gaeta Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 You have huge insecurities, you're afraid she will stop loving you, you're afraid she will have sex with her kid's coach, you're afraid she will start texting someone else .... how can you live like this? You must be emotionally distressed all the time. You should really seek professional help. You will never ever be happy if you don't get a grab on this.
Author orioles1744 Posted May 8, 2014 Author Posted May 8, 2014 I'm only go threw little episodes but she told me she cheated in the past but her best friend said she have never loved someone like she loves me.
Gaeta Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 I'm only go threw little episodes but she told me she cheated in the past but her best friend said she have never loved someone like she loves me. Don't date women that have cheated on their partners. It doesn't matter they were in love or not. Being loyal is a decision, is a state of mind, is a contract between 2 people. If she cheated in the past it means she has no respect for agreements between 2 people. What people do to their ex they will eventually do to you. I know you are full insecure and this will just have your insecurities sky rocket but it is what it is. When you are insecure you don't date women with questionable integrity. My boyfriend is also the insecure type because he was cheated on on almost all of his past relationships. If I had cheated on my partners in the past he would have never given me the time of the day. 2
David87 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 Stop being so insecure. And please stop depending on other people, in this case your girlfriend. Learn to be happy on your own, who cares about some stupid texts.......................
d0nnivain Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 People had strong fulfilling relationships for thousands of years without being able to have instant access to their partners. I rarely talk to my husband during the day. It's better that way becuase then we have new stuff to talk about at dinner. If your relationship with a woman old enough to have a kid falls apart because you are not constantly texting her it wasn't a strong relationship to begin with.
David87 Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 You attract what you fear. This is the best quote i've seen in a long time 1
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