Complicated411 Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Well this probably isn't the best way to start off on a new forum but didn't really have anyone else to talk to about my situation. I am 20 years old and about 2 years ago I started hanging out with my friend and a few cops. One of them is 42 and married with 5 kids. Him and I never really flirted or did anything besides just hang out and talk. The last month or so we ended up hanging out alone when he took the night off to hang out. We ended up hanging out with one of my friends and a few of his. My friend ended up having to go home so we went back to his friends house a little while after that and then we ended up kissing and eventually it led to us having sex. After that we would talk and hang out. We do more then just have sex and he ended up telling me that I was the best thing that has happened to him since his wife. I don't know what I should do seeing as I am really starting to like him but I know in my head that nothing good could come from this. I was just wondering if anyone else had been in a situation like this. I mean he has told me that he doesn't want to lead me on or hold me back but then he also acts like he wants to be with me and takes off work to spend time with me. It is a lot harder then I thought it would be since he was everything that I was looking for. I am just comfused and felt like venting to anyone.
tiredofbeingtheother Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Get out before you get in too deep! if you see the flood waters coming don't hang out and wait for them. i wish i would have. before you know it youll be spending holidays alone and crying because your alone and he's with the wife. and 5 kids? do you really want to deal with that. believe me they find out theyll hate you and hell resent you for hurting them.
Author Complicated411 Posted February 8, 2005 Author Posted February 8, 2005 Thanks for your response. It is a hard situation because I really do have stong feelings for him and I know that is isn't right. My head it telling me how stupid I am for doing this knowing the full situation and knowing that I could never be with him. I am going to have to get all my strength together to end this situation.
Mr Spock Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Cops can be NOTORIUS cheaters, and they rarely leave their wives. MM rarely leave their wives anyways. run, run, run away....... If you were the best thing that's ever happened to him he would have left her and married you regardless of kids. You are the best thing that's happened to his 42 year old penis in probably 6 years or so..... Going to get hurt, you are young jedi.............
lynnered Posted February 8, 2005 Posted February 8, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock You are the best thing that's happened to his 42 year old penis in probably 6 years or so..... lol
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