joel Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 ok there is this gal i like and all and wana talk to her but we sit opposites sides of the class, is it ok and would it seem too desperate if i as a guy waited for her outside of class -as class is finished to speak to her so we can walk together and talk. is that called desperate or too stalkish. also she sometimes walks with a another freind is it ok if i join em and speal with em or should i wait till she is by herself. i am kinda of shy person. what are examples that would makle me seem desperate and clingy i been known to be that?
tiki Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by joel ok there is this gal i like and all and wana talk to her but we sit opposites sides of the class, is it ok and would it seem too desperate if i as a guy waited for her outside of class -as class is finished to speak to her so we can walk together and talk. is that called desperate or too stalkish. Just 'conveniently' leave class the same time as her, even if you have to take a few extra seconds gathering your papers together. Then talk to her...it'll seem more natural that way.
Hund1976 Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Girls like guys with some confidence. So time it so you're not here when you're walking out of class then when you get out the door say "hey susy (or whatever her name is) you want to go grab a cup of coffee" or something like that, whatever there is to do in your area. If she likes you she'll say yes, or if she's really busy she'll make a counteroffer, like "I've got to get to a test now, how about tomorrow?" that's still good, but if she says "Oh I'm really busy now, maybe some other time" then she is probably trying to blow you off then you should say "okay, well let me know when you get some free time and want to go" and then ignore her from there and make her make the next move.
tiki Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 You could start talking to her over email or AIM. Or ask her to study with you. True, true, definitely act confident. Act like you know she wants you.
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