hopeless7 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 We dated for almost a year. Towards the end of the relationship he Would cancel plans a lot which led me to resent him and caused a lot of fights. But any girl would react that way...? I guess my insecurity, neediness, and our nasty fights pushed him away:( he said I changed and last time we hung out we agreed it was different. But then he just dumped me. He had been talking to me less and less for a while. Then dumped me. Said he wanted to be friends. Sound GENIUNELY dissapointed when I told him I didn't wanna be friends. "So you're just gonna give up on me" he said. But then I told him I wanted to be friends. Mind you I also had been texting and calling him excessively. I was super emotional and he knew. He didn't seem like he gave a **** we broke up, although he swears he was upset. But that's it. I was devastated, not just upset. He told me he wouldn't let himself be devastated. Wtf? Last time we talked he was very short. I told him I wanted to be friends and he agreed but then just said "oh" I am now on day 5 of no contact and he hasn't even tried to talk to me. I'm so hurt. It's getting harder. He probably dosent even care... If he did he would text me. I remember when we first dated he was like "if I didn't want to talk to you I wouldn't" so I guess that means he dosent now/: Do you think he will ever contact me again? Why or why not? My clinginess and such pushed him away I guess. He told me I need help if that means anything. I still have his stuff though so I would think hed contact me. And my birthday is coming up soon too./:
FredJones80 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 5 days seems a long time, but it really isn't. Keep it up, if he is interested in you, he will break it first, if not, move on to someone who does care.
dovegirl Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 There is a cliche saying, but it is true: Never make someone a priority if they have made you an option. This guy is not the only guy out there. He is not the only guy out there FOR YOU. I know it feels like it right now, but I promise this is not the end of the world. If he wants to talk to you he will. If he doesn't talk to you, it means he doesn't want to talk to you. That will hurt. Let it hurt for awhile, but don't let it defeat you. Learn from this relationship, so that you aren't "clingy" in the next one. And there WILL be a next one, whether it is with this guy or one of those other guys out there. Never let another person define your self-worth. Only you can do that. Good luck! And happy birthday 1
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