tmoney42 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 My girlfriend of 14.5 months broke up for about 3 weeks and i want her back, i havent contacted her since she dumped me i was completely cool and composed, agreed to it and didnt beg or anything of that matter. Prior to the break up we got into an argument which resulted me gettign arrested because i was holding her around her waste cause she was crying and screaming and punching and elbowing me so i didnt want her to go in the school at the state that she was. We both wished that it never happened, a few days after we broke up i was super drunk and so was she but i found out she was out with her friends and ended up at a guys house and i freaked out and went over to talk to her which resulted her to say i hate you and never want to talk to you again. Since that day i havent spoke to her. What can i do to get her back? Since she dumped me should she text me first? she has never been the one to chase or admit shes wrong but i am willing to swallow some pride to get her back and her birthday is on may 16th, and im wondering if i should text her happy birthday, i know there are pros and cons to this but please leave me descriptive response on what i should do, i wont be depressed if we dont get back together but i would like her to be with me again. I havent contacted her for about 3 weeks so when her birthday is here itll be a little over a month please let me know what you think in need of some guidance be bitterly honest dont sugar coat it. As immature as it sounds im wondering if jealously would work at all cause last time we broke up i moved on and she freaked out and came running back but its not the same this time just let me know
Strength in Healing Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 You got arrested for holding her around the waist while she was physically beating you? Care to explain deeper? I am law enforcement, and have no idea what you're talking about. What was the charge? As for how to get her back, unfortunately, there are no magic words. You can't will her back, or say just the right thing, or convince her, or manipulate her. Some people do a 30 day NC rule where they wait 30 days then reach out to their ex, because it is imagined that after 30 days they've had time to cool off and may just be scared to reach out to you. But me personally, I think if anything, you could reach out to her just to say you love and miss her, and you want to work on things, and that she should text you when and ONLY when she agrees to try to work it out. Otherwise, stay NC. In reality, she said she hated you, and was at another guys house. You should really ask yourself how much pride you're willing to swallow.
Author tmoney42 Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 i was charged with criminal restraint and she didnt stand up for me. But not to be the hypocritical one but i was at a party with girls there too she was at a small get together with her girls and there were at a guys house. she is a weird girl i believe she was saying that as a defense mechanism and also intoxicated but still thats no excuse
Recommended Posts