bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 (edited) I just broke up with a widow which I was dating for six months see text me the following You did nothing wrong I am very attracted to you You are a very passionate, intense guy Everything I want in a guy I believe for me, we jumped in to fast At this time life , I am not ready for intense You are intense, you cannot be zany other way She would not talk to me, she said please move on what does " intense " mean in a realtionship Edited May 7, 2014 by bvasilof correction
BigGirlPantiesOn Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Means just what she said...too much, too deep, too soon. And what does her being a widow have to do with anything? To break up via text is rude and thoughtless. Oh, and she needs a dictionary.
Author bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 the reason, I brought the widow up is because I was always asking her are we going to fast and she has told me when we started to date she still was in the healing process She was controlling the pace, I though, until I got the text Just a week ago still told me I love you and I am 90 % there in giving you my whole heart, she invited me over for dinner, we had a great night and morning and then she texted me
FredJones80 Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Can all that fit in to one text? I thought you said you dated a winDow. Either way, its obviously too soon after her husband/wife has passed away.
Author bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 she wont answer my phone or text should I go see her and tell her, lets try to slow it down its been about a week My friends tell me, if she was really in love, she will come back to you Obviously still is still trying to heal I just don't know if I should try to her to lets work things out or just let it be I really care for her
Author bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 Can all that fit in to one text? I thought you said you dated a winDow. Either way, its obviously too soon after her husband/wife has passed away. its been 4 years, if that matters or not and yes it was all in one text
Babolat Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 My female best friend met a guy from OLD recently and said he was too Intense for her. He was an extreme Extrovert, not willing to let things move organically, and pushed too hard, and came across as clingy. They made out on the 2nd date and she said the texting was non stop the next day, and pushed her away.
Babolat Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 she wont answer my phone or text should I go see her and tell her, lets try to slow it down its been about a week My friends tell me, if she was really in love, she will come back to you Obviously still is still trying to heal I just don't know if I should try to her to lets work things out or just let it be I really care for her No, do not contact her, respect her and her desire to stop.
Author bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 My female best friend met a guy from OLD recently and said he was too Intense for her. He was an extreme Extrovert, not willing to let things move organically, and pushed too hard, and came across as clingy. They made out on the 2nd date and she said the texting was non stop the next day, and pushed her away. that's what I don't understand, I communicated with her and was always asking are we going fast, I am I texting or calling to much her response was always " I love it " don't change anything I just don't understand
Author bvasilof Posted May 7, 2014 Author Posted May 7, 2014 My female best friend met a guy from OLD recently and said he was too Intense for her. He was an extreme Extrovert, not willing to let things move organically, and pushed too hard, and came across as clingy. They made out on the 2nd date and she said the texting was non stop the next day, and pushed her away. and she was texting me non stop flirting , if she wanted to take it slow she was more aggressive than I was I just don't get it
Babolat Posted May 8, 2014 Posted May 8, 2014 You are like me in that you are trying to figure out "What happened?" My best guess is everything she said to you felt real to her. My guess is at some point she realized she is not ready, and maybe you were a rebound. Having "to fast" conversations, to me, is kind of a red flag. I would try to stop asking "Why?" and focus on moving forward.
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