Neversawit Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 My "ex" and I dated for almost two years and during this time, I attempted to fit in with his close knit group of friends, who are also close to his EX. This group of girls, including his EX would try to be friendly and I would reciprocate, but then I started to get the feeling she was trying to move in on him again. I saw the signs, but my BF said I was imagining things. Well lo and behold, me and him get into a huge fight and he dumps me and starts immediately talking to her and slept with her, a few times I'm sure. He told me they are just "hanging out." A little background, he is one of those that pursued me, I bit, but I find out later he had not even broken up with her. I told him call me if they ever do. They do and she starts dating someone else and then me and him get together. At the time they were just "hanging out." She had broken things off with her man about a month before. Anyway, well its only been about two weeks and now he wants to talk to me. He has to go out of town and is worried about the job and is trying to confide in me. Which I keep telling him go to her. Well he wants to come by and talk. He proceeds to come over, get down on bended knee and propose w/a ring. Is this a typical GIGS or is he just lost it. I am so confused and not sure what to do. Oh, I also got an apology and he has agreed to cut off all communication with her. Thanks for your help.
Ebman Posted May 7, 2014 Posted May 7, 2014 Listen to your gut. It knows what your mind hasn't figured out yet. You should intrinsically know whether you can trust him to do what he says or not. You can accept the ring and just stay engaged and not actually marry till he has proved that he can cut her out of his life. If you gut is ringing then head for the hills and don't look back.
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