bu2002 Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 My fourth date with this girl was Friday. We had been in some form of communication for about a month I don't want to pursue things further and pretty sure she doesn't either. I haven't contacted her since the last date and she hasn't contacted me as well. I met this girl through a friend as she's a co-worker of my friend. Do I even need to say anything at this point? Or only respond if she were to contact me again? Or is it always better to have some closure on this?
Candy_Pants Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 "It was nice getting to know you, but I don't see this going any further." 2
d0nnivain Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 Since neither of you has reached out, I think you're OK with the fade out, no further effort required. If she does reach out, Candy Pants' suggestion is find. 2
Dallers Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 I agree on the fade out if you are both not interested but sometimes a person's lack of interest is telling them that she is also not interested when actually she really might like you. How do you know what a women is thinking? I think it is far more decent and shows a confident stance to send the above ^^ "It was nice getting to know you, but I don't see this going any further."
ja123 Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 Since neither of you has reached out, I think you're OK with the fade out, no further effort required. If she does reach out, Candy Pants' suggestion is find. ^ ^ This.
Hopeful30 Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 What closure could you possibly need after only a few dates? If it's mutual, then there's no point to speak the obvious.
todreaminblue Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 I normally say i am not right for you and I wish them well..because that would be the truth..i would normally give more than four dates.......but thats me.......deb
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