STM206 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Your ex happened to join the forum? Would you totally crap your pants? Think of this... Your ex makes a post - "Should I take my ex back?" Would you totally disregard the whole NC scenario and encourage the poster/ex to call his ex/you as soon as possible? Funny thought... Oh dumpee minds like to fantasize quite a bit don't they. 1
lil hoodlum Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 (edited) It has happened a few times that I know of. Not to me of course. Basically an ex found out and created a profile and went on to tell "their" side of how things went down. Allways interesting how some posters leave out important details of the relationship of break ups. Edited May 6, 2014 by lil hoodlum misspell
Always Pondering Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 It's funny you made this thread because once before (that is, before I realized how unrealistic this is for my case) I had some fantasy that my ex would find out about this forum and be all "wow, you have changed so much I want you back". Then I realized how silly that was. I'm not sure how I'd react, because I'm 99.9% sure she's not a forum-type of person and is happily in a relationship (not that there aren't happy couples on here).
FredJones80 Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 Your ex happened to join the forum? Would you totally crap your pants? Think of this... Your ex makes a post - "Should I take my ex back?" Would you totally disregard the whole NC scenario and encourage the poster/ex to call his ex/you as soon as possible? Funny thought... Oh dumpee minds like to fantasize quite a bit don't they. Lol, this made me laugh. Get out of my head STM206.
learning_slowly Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 The chances of them coming on here too are relatively low, as they chose to split up with you. They may have guilt, but probably not the gnawing pain. They're in a position where they feel they could get back with you if they wanted to. So why go to a forum for help? And ask yourself, if they saw your messages and then they suddenly wanted to be with you again, would you want to be with them? The only reason they would be with you is pity. You deserve better than that. If my girl wanted to get back with me now, there's no way I'd do it. Call it pride if you want, but I think it comes from realising what you are worth as a person. If you were an ass, then you may not be able to relate, but then you have to accept you deserve a bit of pain and move on.
learning_slowly Posted May 6, 2014 Posted May 6, 2014 P.s. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be tempted or that I don't get tough days. It just means I think I'm strong enough to realise I deserve better and so should you. 1
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