What are her intentions?

[VinnyJ]

So there was this girl, Melissa, that I was previously casually dating for a little over a month. She and I became pretty close in a month, although I never made a move due to her wanting things slow. Last Friday I took her to a carnival, where we bumped into her ex boyfriend. Long story short he causes problems and she told me she was getting a restraining order. She and I ended up going the mall, where I asked her if she’d like to go out again over the weekend. She gladly accepted and things seemed good. That night she texts me saying she wants to be just friends, her words were ‘’close friends’’. That night I told her I liked her more than a friend and really don’t need another female friend.

Ever since that text I’ve been very short with her through text. She texted multiple times saying how sorry she was, and she feels really bad for leading me on, and wants to make it right. I never really accepted her apology, but did make it clear to her I don’t hate her. Fast forward to last night, it’s 3AM, I get a text from her. She ended up drunk texting me telling me how she really missed playing guitar with me, something we did on our first official date. I don’t know why she’d miss that, since I can only play two 3 string songs, barely.

So my question here is, why did she text me? Is this girl having second thoughts about friendzoning me? They say the truth comes out as the liquor goes in. I still really like this girl, but after her rejection I don’t know if I’m looking too into things, or if she changed her mind. Thanks for the help!!!

[TylerDurdenn]

She was drunk. She doesn't want you as a boyfriend. Move on.

[yorozo]

I think there may be some feelings for you underneath it all, but she specifically said she just wants to be friends so I wouldn't chase after anything more than that.

 

I know it's hard to do, but you need to let go of the image you may have together of you two as a couple and try your best to move on.