chosen_one Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 All my life I have been single. The reason being me not having good communication skill with opposite sex and I dont know how to flirt girls.My status frustrates me when i see couples walking down the street by my side. Theres a girl in my Class whom I have seen for last 4 years. When we were new I had huge crush on her and used to talk to her alot. But that feeling died away soon.I do't know why.Sometimes later I found that girl was dating some one else.But that didnt work out for her.And I stopped talking to her except for the cases when we had to discuss our course materials. Now we are in our final year and only 3 months of college is left.And my heart says that I have got some feelings for her still. And I believe she will be the person that I would miss most. What am i suppose to do? Tell her straight that I have feelings for you.I am gonna miss you most.
Valen Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 What am i suppose to do? Tell her straight that I have feelings for you.I am gonna miss you most. Don't do that, just ask her out on a date. There are tons of stuff you two can talk about, the past 4 yrs and the future for the both of you. Also I suggest try to hang out with guys that are good with women. You can observe and learn from them. Also try to socialize as much as possible. If you are a loner it will be hard to develop these type of skill-sets, go interact with all kinds of people, girls and guys, old and young. Another thing if you are not hitting the gym, I suggest you do that. Exercise will boost your self-esteem and with that you will be more confident when you talk to girls. Good luck.
Author chosen_one Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 Thanks for your reply. These days I have been chatting with her on fb. But I believe she doesn't feel the way I feel. So I am having hard time and I believe I am wasting my time. So confessing to her and see what she feels would that be right option to do??
HappyLove Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Just ask her to the movies. You don't have to confess your feelings. Or get tickets to an event and tell her the event and time and ask if she'd like to go.
Author chosen_one Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 I thought I was spending most of my time thinking her. So I decided to ask her out. I said I have grown fond of you.Would you like to go out with me??I was ready for the answer whether yes or no. And she rejected me. At that moment I was so happy eventhough i was rejected because It was first time I asked any girl. But next day when I saw her again I was not sure whether I did right or wrong. I know I have to move on but seeing her makes me feel loser. And the saddest part I have to see her 4 more months. Confessing to her would that change the way she used to see me. Does rejection mean I wont have her in my life??
Potz4prez Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 It means you should keep on asking girls out till you get a "yes."
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