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So I've been broken up for 7 months.

 

I have been sleeping with a friend for about 2 months now. (Sort of on and off, I have tried calling it quits with her but every couple of weeks we seem to end up in bed together. This friend is a great girl and has been very generous in offering me support and advice on my breakup.)

 

Anyway, so a week ago my FWB went with a couple of my other friends to the pub where my ex likes to hang out. My ex had met my fwb whilst we were still dating but she doesn't know that we've been sleeping with each other since the BU.

 

So my ex goes and sits down next to my fwb and next thing she is pouring her heart out all about our failed relationship and all my character flaws which led to its demise. My fwb didn't encourage her but my ex seemed to feel the need to tell someone from my circle all about my issues, I suppose as a way of explaining why she bailed.

 

When my fwb told me she'd seen my ex I said I don't want to hear about it but after a week my curiosity got the better of me and I asked her to tell me about the encounter.

 

Well it's left me a bit messed up again. One of the things my ex said is that there is no way she will every consider reconciling. So I suppose that was good to hear to kill the last smidgen of hope..

 

She also asked my fwb if she thought I was ready to be friends yet.. my fwb said no, he is not ready. Hmm.. little does my ex know that the way I feel at the moment and after all the advice here it is unlikely I will ever be friends with her.

 

Anyway, just wanted to share my little story. It was kinda ironic how they ended up having this chat. My fwb joked that when my ex was droning on about my character flaws she should have said 'yes, but he's got a great penis hasn't he?' haha. That would have been classic. Anyway..

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Well this is nice to hear, thanks for sharing. You are doing way better than her in the healing process so chin up.:D

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