starla33 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 after a few dates would scare him off. I kind of want to tell this guy I have been on a few dates with that I only sleep with one person before we have sex. Why on earth would that scare him off?
somedude81 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 It should not scare off any decent guy. Exclusivity before sex. If that is important to you, then don't settle for anything less. 2
Author starla33 Posted May 5, 2014 Author Posted May 5, 2014 It should not scare off any decent guy. Exclusivity before sex. If that is important to you, then don't settle for anything less. Yeah i really like this one and don't want to screw it up though
somedude81 Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Yeah i really like this one and don't want to screw it up though Would you be happy knowing that you were the third woman he slept with that week?
Author starla33 Posted May 5, 2014 Author Posted May 5, 2014 Would you be happy knowing that you were the third woman he slept with that week? of course not
Andy_K Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 of course not Then it's not really 'screwing it up' if he doesn't like you asking. 1
Gaeta Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 after a few dates would scare him off. I kind of want to tell this guy I have been on a few dates with that I only sleep with one person before we have sex. Why on earth would that scare him off? So what does your friend suggest? That you don't sleep with him or that you go ahead and do it without talking about it? Talking about sexual exclusivity is normal business in the dating world. You tell the guy that you are only intimate with a man if you are sexually exclusive. It's a take it or leave it deal. If the man runs off it's because you don't share the same views on dating and sex, better for him to get lost now than later. 2
Chocolat Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Is your title meant to say "seeing" or "sexting"? If he's doing the latter in your presence, that is beyond tacky, imo. 1
soccerrprp Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 Yeah i really like this one and don't want to screw it up though No no no. Your guy friend is wrong. You MUST ask if the guy you're dating is seeing someone else before you commit to intimacy, etc. If it scares him off, then so be it. He was not worth it. You do know how crazy your friend's suggestion is, right? Ugh. No matter how much you like someone, don't compromise yourself! Don't invest too much energy or emotion to someone that has not proven himself to you. 1
Author starla33 Posted May 5, 2014 Author Posted May 5, 2014 No no no. Your guy friend is wrong. You MUST ask if the guy you're dating is seeing someone else before you commit to intimacy, etc. If it scares him off, then so be it. He was not worth it. You do know how crazy your friend's suggestion is, right? Ugh. No matter how much you like someone, don't compromise yourself! Don't invest too much energy or emotion to someone that has not proven himself to you. Yeah i guess he just said to wait more dates then. We are up to 5th date now and it's getting hot and heavy and hard to step away from that part
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