stevieb143 Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 My girlfriend has been very inconsistent about her past. I get the impression she is not over her past boyfriends. She has said she has not had that many 4 relationships and no 1 night stands, which i do believe. 1st bf was with him for 9 yrs no kids no marriage and happy to talk about this one and what happened. 2nd Hidden will not say a word. 3rd has said some bits, like were together 2 yrs and failed because he took a job overseas and never considered her as an equal in the relationship. but very closed. 4th completely inconsistent stories. one minute together for 19 months, then 7 months. They moved in after 3 months. relationship ended in April 2013. But she was still with BF 3 in december 2012. My feeling is that BF 4 ended not that long ago and she is not over him. She has lied to cover up it ended in oct/Nov 2013. I know the new relationship did not start until at least Jan 2013. She also went on holiday in July 2013 and said she went with friends. I asked her directly if you went with your ex which she denied. But i have found out something more recently about the holiday in July her BF had to be mentioned on her tourist visa for the holiday. They would not grant her a schegen visa without the BF saying that he would support her in Europe, her friends told me this. Lastly i know she ran away from the BF because he cheated on her. But there is no reason to lie about the dates. I do like her a lot and she stays at my place 3 to 4 nights a week, we get on well. But i feel like there is something she is not telling me, when i ask her she goes off on one about trust, but i have alarm bells ringing in my head that there is something more to it.
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