Author SCJACK Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 so as you guys know.. I just unfriended my ex on fb. I didn't block her as I didn't see the need to. That was a few days ago but now she sent me a message about an hour ago and said "hey, at first i didn't wanna say anything about this but since now i just done with my last final. i thought maybe i should say it. i didn't think you would pull that... move, on fb n all. really? really?? thats something really .....different of you." then she says "if you want it that way then... okay. u probably know how i would think about it anyways" then she says "hope u did well on finals, gluck" Honestly I don't even know why she would even find the need to say anything to me about it? I guess I must have showed up as "people you may know" Or she might have actually been searching for me. Oh well. There was so much stuff I want to say to her and lash out and say stuff that might be mean or explain to her stuff but I'm not going to do it.. I didn't reply as I think there is no need to. Just she seems immature/selfish about it.. why get mad at me?
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 so as you guys know.. I just unfriended my ex on fb. I didn't block her as I didn't see the need to. That was a few days ago but now she sent me a message about an hour ago and said "hey, at first i didn't wanna say anything about this but since now i just done with my last final. i thought maybe i should say it. i didn't think you would pull that... move, on fb n all. really? really?? thats something really .....different of you." then she says "if you want it that way then... okay. u probably know how i would think about it anyways" then she says "hope u did well on finals, gluck" Honestly I don't even know why she would even find the need to say anything to me about it? I guess I must have showed up as "people you may know" Or she might have actually been searching for me. Oh well. There was so much stuff I want to say to her and lash out and say stuff that might be mean or explain to her stuff but I'm not going to do it.. I didn't reply as I think there is no need to. Just she seems immature/selfish about it.. why get mad at me? Because she is immature as hell. She knows why you did it, but doesnt want to look like the bad guy, so she vilifies you. It's basic 101 crap. She thinks you are moving on (which you should be) and she feels like she isnt. Good move. Keep doing it. DO NOT RESPOND.
organizedchaos Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 Why get mad at you? Because you've changed. You showed her you don't need her. And it is sinking in now. 1
Author SCJACK Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 I hope you didn't respond to her texts... Nope, I didn't respond. Because she is immature as hell. She knows why you did it, but doesnt want to look like the bad guy, so she vilifies you. It's basic 101 crap. She thinks you are moving on (which you should be) and she feels like she isnt. Good move. Keep doing it. DO NOT RESPOND. Yeah, I'm moving on slowly.. Still think about her everyday but it doesn't bother me anymore like it used to. There was really no reason at all to text me about it. I guess it bothered her.. It was weird that she said how i was "different" I mean yeah. probably because she didn't think I would do that since i'm such a nice guy and it threw her off.. I didn't expect her to text me. and it kinda bothered me how she said it was a "pulling a move" there's no move.. I didn't do it to hurt her or anything. I still want to be friends but I gave her that chance already...
Author SCJACK Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 why tell me good luck on finals? she never cared for me before after the bu. i delete her off fb and shes mad and tells me good luck? haha.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 why tell me good luck on finals? she never cared for me before after the bu. i delete her off fb and shes mad and tells me good luck? haha. It's more of a smarta** "good luck" type message. She is mad and trying to make you look bad. By throwing out the "good luck", she is trying to look better why you look worse. Classic move. Make you feel guilty for "pulling a move" like you did (though you weren't) Again, it means nothing and not something to worry about. You are doing well just keep going. 1
Author SCJACK Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 It's more of a smarta** "good luck" type message. She is mad and trying to make you look bad. By throwing out the "good luck", she is trying to look better why you look worse. Classic move. Make you feel guilty for "pulling a move" like you did (though you weren't) Again, it means nothing and not something to worry about. You are doing well just keep going. Ah.. Okay I guess b!tch be cray. Oh well that's great about the good luck thing.. that comment makes me feel like she thinks I will fail or something... I'm loads smarter than she is, I have a 4.0 major gpa and over 3.5 cumulative...I ace basically every test... I'm not the one who needs the luck.. 1
Summerrose2013 Posted May 9, 2014 Posted May 9, 2014 As long as you hold out and don't reply, you now hold the power - enjoy it.....do what many of us on here wish we had done, take the higher ground and ignore. So many of us feel it's rude not to respond BUT it's NOT. It's called moving on. You owe the girl nothing. 2
Author SCJACK Posted May 9, 2014 Author Posted May 9, 2014 As long as you hold out and don't reply, you now hold the power - enjoy it.....do what many of us on here wish we had done, take the higher ground and ignore. So many of us feel it's rude not to respond BUT it's NOT. It's called moving on. You owe the girl nothing. Yes, I do sense some power now..maybe just a little. I haven't had the urge to reply or anything and I don't intend to. Although, hypothetically I always wanted to tell her off and say why it had to be this way. and tell her why we can't be friends and I'm not going to sit around to be her doormat.
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