White women who date black guys

[singlelife]

How do you know if a woman is into black guys?

[Candy_Pants]

There's no way to tell outwardly.....unless she's currently *with* a black man.

[Armegoggon]

Pretty sure there isn't a specific way to tell. If a woman likes a different race, they'll most probably approach it. Same goes for men. Generally speaking though, they may not expect to end up interracial unless they show signs of it. Usually black and white date is common for interracial. If Asian + Black or Asian + White etc, then it's not as common so women probably wouldn't expect it unless they try to look up their traditions.

[mammasita]

Let's see......

 

 

You approach her.....and ask her of she wants to accompany you on a date......

 

 

That usually works.

[MrNate 2.0]

Check her vag for blackness.

 

 

(I've probably been in there already.)

[still_an_Angel]

Would be hard to tell, you need to get more info on her past relationships, you'll be able to tell from the stats

[Tressugar]

I would venture to say it's in the way she carries herself. That's how you'll know.

[Tressugar]

It has nothing to do with sex.

[Cakess]

I would venture to say it's in the way she carries herself. That's how you'll know.

 

...What exactly are you trying to say? If she's rapping Nicki Minaj and wears large ghetto earrings??

 

I don't see the point of this question, why would you care who she's dated? If you want to be her current lover, then it shouldn't faze you either way.

[saltyfishhead666]

How do you know if a woman is into black guys?

 

Why wouldn't a woman be into black men? Do you act different to white men or something? Not that I've noticed.

 

I have a bi-racial daughter, and her father was a womaniser to say the very least, the only black man I have ever been with. Although that wouldn't stop me from dating another as his behaviour isn't a racial deal.

[Assasda]

There are Four kinda white women.

 

1. Ones that only date black guys

2. Ones that dont care at all

3. Ones that are total freaks for black guys sexual

4. Ones that dont date black guys

 

If you can talk to the woman and become friends with her, as a black guy, she's usually 1-3

[Candy_Pants]

There are Four kinda white women.

 

1. Ones that only date black guys

2. Ones that dont care at all

3. Ones that are total freaks for black guys sexual

4. Ones that dont date black guys

 

If you can talk to the woman and become friends with her, as a black guy, she's usually 1-3

I'm #4 and have male black friends.

[Candy_Pants]

Why wouldn't a woman be into black men?

One word, "preference".

[saltyfishhead666]

One word, "preference".

 

But it's a colour! Surely the preference would be their personality traits..

 

Or are people really that shallow

[Stillits]

Actually, black people usually have some bodily features (especially facial) which differ to for example caucasians. So yeah, I'm just one of those women who is not really attracted to these types of features. That doesn't make me shallow or racist, as I have absolutely no problem being friends with anyone of any race. I just have no sexual desire or desire to date, in this case, black people.. Well, I haven't met one I'd date yet.

[Gaeta]

How do you know if a woman is into black guys?

 

She will be looking at them and pay no attention to the white dudes around.

[saltyfishhead666]

Actually, black people usually have some bodily features (especially facial) which differ to for example caucasians. So yeah, I'm just one of those women who is not really attracted to these types of features. That doesn't make me shallow or racist, as I have absolutely no problem being friends with anyone of any race. I just have no sexual desire or desire to date, in this case, black people.. Well, I haven't met one I'd date yet.

 

See now that makes sense. I was like so she's not racist as she has black friends lol

[saltyfishhead666]

I don't think many parents would disown you for wearing a black shirt but some might for dating a black guy. Especially Italian ones.

 

Are you kidding me?

 

My parents despise my daughters father because he's a dick not because he's black.

 

I'm not sure I would want parents who would disown me because someone's skin colour differs.

 

This is an eye opener

[mammasita]

I don't think many parents would disown you for wearing a black shirt but some might for dating a black guy. Especially Italian ones.

 

My dad was like this when I was growing up. Made me want to do the opposite of everything he told me not to do......and I did

 

Now that I can support myself regardless. He has no leverage and keeps his silliness to himself.

[TAV]

Are you kidding me?

 

My parents despise my daughters father because he's a dick not because he's black.

 

I'm not sure I would want parents who would disown me because someone's skin colour differs.

 

This is an eye opener

 

Maybe it's a very American thing?

[soccerrprp]

Going back to the OP's original question... you don't unless you ask or see them dating someone who is black...duh.

 

I've dated all colors- YAY! Love it that I am not limited by what race one belongs. So many more options, tastes and experiences. Then again, it helps to be multi-racial myself. My gf didn't ever think that she'd be in love with someone like myself. I suspect it has a lot to do with her up-bringing and subsequent social groups she enlisted herself into. Funny though, she doesn't see me or think of me as a "minority."

 

It's all about preference and frankly, maturity. After a while, you begin to realize that companionship, love is much more important than the color of one's skin.

[soccerrprp]

Sounds good on paper but for many not practical in the real world.

 

Although there are many women who are Black, Asian, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, etc. who I think are attractive. I happen to not be attracted to a majority of them.

 

The ones I am attracted too... Due to the background / cultural differences between us, I choose not to date them. For me, relationships are hard enough as it is. Adding background / cultural differences on top of it just makes it all that more difficult.

 

 

Agreed, Truth Hurts. I find many women, varying cultures extremely attractive, but background/cultural differences is top on my list as to whether I'd date them. My gf is WHITE and a professional, but if her view of life, culture and background were too slippery or incompatible, I don't care how beautiful or successful she is...NO WAY would I date her.

 

Your perspective on this is solid, I think. No racist or bigoted, simply practical.

[Chocolat]

She will be looking at them and pay no attention to the white dudes around.

 

But what if she likes white dudes, too?

[Treasa]

White girl here, engaged to a black dude. *waves* I've also dated white, "asian" (different countries, but only one a piece, and not worth it to mention all of them), hispanic...

 

I guess I'm one of those "I'd like sample all 31 flavors, please."

[soccerrprp]

I don't think many parents would disown you for wearing a black shirt but some might for dating a black guy. Especially Italian ones.

 

Are you kidding me?

 

My parents despise my daughters father because he's a dick not because he's black.

 

I'm not sure I would want parents who would disown me because someone's skin colour differs.

 

This is an eye opener

 

Maybe it's a very American thing?

 

All are correct. I don't know about "especially" Italian, but America is a very divided country and it goes back to our very nasty and unresolved history of slavery.

 

Look at our politics, blue states vs. red states nonsense, educational opportunities, etc. You will see that race has a lot do to with our country's dysfunction. We like to claim it's a cultural war, but that's largely an idea perpetrated by those who want to dismiss and ignore that our country is very racist.

 

Yup, I've heard of and known families, parents distancing themselves from their own flesh and blood b/c he/she fell in love with someone of the "unacceptable" or "other" race.