Sub Posted May 5, 2014 Posted May 5, 2014 A bed is just a piece of furniture, and one that is comfortable when it comes to sex. I certainly don't seek out the marital bed, but I don't avoid it either. It is just a place. You would think that a BS would have bigger issues about the sex than the precise location of the activity. Not necessarily. I can only assume it's the same for other BS's, but once you discover your spouse has had an A, you'll take any form of comfort you can get. You'd like to think the place you rest your head, or even your own home, are "safe" places you can rely on for that comfort. You can say it's just a piece of furniture, but it's not. I'd like to be able to deal with the mess that involves another man and my wife without literally lying in a mess that involves another man and my wife. 4
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