Charlie.Marlowe Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Hi, people! Here it is - we've known each other for the last 7 yrs, and been really good friends for the past 4 yrs. We have mutual friends and acquaintances, so we hang out with the same group(s) of people. (* btw I'm a girl, he's a guy - if it matters, we're both in our mid/late twenties). But in the last 10 months or so things changed between us. We used to hang out just the two of us, shared a lot of things, supported each other and had really great times. Now we don't see each other so much as we used to (it happened once we haven't seen each other more than 3 months), almost never hang out alone and when we do meet I feel I can't talk to him anymore like I did before. It feels like we don't have anything in common anymore and I get nervous around him and don't know what to talk about as I would with a total stranger! (*just to make myself clear - I'm far from being clingy/needy person, I usually see/contact each of my friends every 3-4 weeks, I'm very busy and value my free time and space very much) I know you'll tell me things like this happen and friendships fade away but I'm confused. Should I try to fix it and tell him how I feel or just let it go? Because I sometimes get the feeling he has already made decision about our friendship, cause I don't even know what's going on with his life, while his other friends do, and I feel left out. I feel awfully sad like I've already lost him and miss how things used to be between us Should I talk to him and try to fix it, end it or let it fade away without saying anything? I know I have to make my own decisions, but I need an advice here - have you ever been in similar situation and how did it end/how did you handle it? please help. thnx
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