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When they get attention from the opposite sex and no one even notices you. :(

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In the past? Yeah, to some degree.

 

Now? Not really. Considering my standings, the last thing I should be concerned about is dating.

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Ahhh no! Come on Obama! You got swag! Millions of women are in hot pursuit of you!

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EDIT: mistake in question.Here's the question.

 

When your friends get attention from the opposite sex and no one even notices you. :(

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When they get attention from the opposite sex and no one even notices you. :(

Used to, but the body is an adaptable and tenacious thing. Like callouses on the hands when one deadlifts and curls, so your emotive side will grow more and more dormant with progressive lack of stimuli. It will wait for the right time to emerge (which may be never) lest you get hurt more than is healthy.

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I used to when I was a lot younger and insecure about myself and my looks.

 

It is still of moderate consequence but it does not depress me at all anymore.

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EDIT: mistake in question.Here's the question.

 

When your friends get attention from the opposite sex and no one even notices you. :(

 

I think there's a few things that get the attention of the opposite sex:

 

1. Your appearance. Are you making the most of your looks w decent complimentary hair style, and body toning, etc. And dressing for the occasion with fitting/complimentary clothing.

 

2. How you project yourself. Are you confident enough to talk to the opposite sex, asking questions, complimenting if necessary - and w/o caring if they act turned off by you?

 

3. Learn to dance.

 

.. and remember, if you work out, and learn to dance - you will carry your body and project yourself with more confidence.

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I was more jealous then depressed. I worried that boys would never notice me . . . then I sort of grew into my personality & developed some more self confidence.

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Do you get depressed? ?

 

 

Only when I slow down.

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EDIT: mistake in question.Here's the question.

 

When your friends get attention from the opposite sex and no one even notices you. :(

 

No, I'm used to it.

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