countryrider13 Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Ok so just a general question. obviously people recognize a good looking person of the same sex or opposite, the world is full of them just as we notice not so attractive people. My question for u guys is, most men are physical creatures, they look with their eyes and touch, do you get turned on by seeing someone hot and in turn turn to your partner for sex either right away or later on? Or does that quickly move out of your mind and all your focus is on your partner once you have sex? I know men have their talks amongst other guys when you're together, as women do. But when men make random comments like That girl is hot I'd bang her any day...is that just talk stating she's attractive if you're in a relationship? I know for women in my experience we talk if we see someone hot and make a little joke about, he can fix my plumbing any day! lol...just an example. So men give me your thoughts.
LustAppeal Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Yes it is easy to notice attractive people and yes even I who is in a great relationship with a good looking girl notice other women with good features(not just boobs and butt). But saying that, I would never go out of my way to check these girls out while with my loved one, nor do I daydream about having sexual interactions with them. I take pride in having a girlfriend with features I am physically attracted to and every relationship has different boundaries. For example I would NEVER say, or date someone who states things such as: "I would so tap that." While in a relationship. There's noticing, and then there's implying you want to have sex with that person, and both are two different things. In some relationships the boundaries are wider, noticing and complementing(nicely) other persons body features is perfectly fine. Normally this comes when neither partner has any self confidence or image problems such as my own. In other relationships a partner may feel uncomfortable or even at times feel like it is an unfaithful act. This is seen often in couples where one partner considers porn an unfaithful act. (obviously there can be more to the porn aspect and there are many better examples, but it's a common one within relationships revolving around personal image and confidence problems) All this is why discussing with your partner is such a great tool to building a relationship, if the discussions are not done in a belittling or insecure way that is. 1
Assasda Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 I dont know what kind of animals you think men are, but they are not just some Cavemen that can only think with their dick If we see a girl that looks hot. We can acknowledge that she is hot, but why would anyone think about her later when being intimate. We dont KNOW her. We know our significant other, and what she sounds like and what she is a person. All these questions seem a little juvenile 1
MrMeh Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 I have a penis so I speak for all males. Men never joke about women. We pummel each other or compare genitalia to see which man shall take her home. We also can't differentiate between random women and our significant other as our penis usually takes over by the time we see a nude female. Not being facetious...at all...completely serious. 3
Leigh 87 Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 Mature, grown men don't normally say " man she's hot I'd bang her" My bf certainly doesn't talk like that:sick: Generally, grown adults who talk like that are not the best boyfriends. My ex talked like that " wow she is hot" and he was a shallow jerk who only wanted to date 10/10's. I was not attractive enough for him even though many guys think I am pretty. He was just on the look out for the girl that was " hot enough" for him, which wasn't me since I am not a 9/10 or above I think once in 5 months my current boyfriend has called a girl "cute". And it didn't have a sexual undertone...She was some girl reading the news I think....he just thought she looked cute. Not " wow she is cute, I am so thinking about banging her" He watches porn occasionally when we aren't together. That is his fix of other women. Sure guys think about other women but they don't all ogle women and make very juvenile remarks.
Smilecharmer Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 I really feel sorry for men...this stuff perpetuated by a few immature or entitled men makes all men seem like idiots who think with their penis. If I was a man I would be offended by these commercials and tv/movies/music that reenforces this silly stereotype that you all are Charlie Harpers or Barney Stinsons. Just a walking dick with nothing else going on up there....
Valen Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 As a man, I would only just say "She's hot!" The "I would bang her" part is a given so no point in saying it. Now when I am in a relationship, I honestly don't care to think about or look at other women. I get a tunnel vision. Usually, my guy friends would have to point out the hot girl to me cuz I just don't bother looking. 1
Hopeful30 Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 I really feel sorry for men...this stuff perpetuated by a few immature or entitled men makes all men seem like idiots who think with their penis. If I was a man I would be offended by these commercials and tv/movies/music that reenforces this silly stereotype that you all are Charlie Harpers or Barney Stinsons. Just a walking dick with nothing else going on up there.... It's not just media though. How many women have been with men like this? How many dates gone horribly wrong because the man behaves like this? The stereotype is often reinforced because of experience or women seeing men behave like this. And it's not a universally accepted rule or anything, thats why the poster is asking if it's true. You shouldn't be offended. You should take this opportunity to set the record straight.
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