raider09 Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 how do i ask out a classmate in class. I rarely see her outside school, and school is almost about to end I don't want to miss my opportunity.
LustAppeal Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 It's as easy as how you make it... We cannot make you more confident, nor can we turn you into an amazing flirt. All this is done through personal experience, the more women you approach and flirt with the better you get at it. The more confident and motivating people you hang out with the more confident and motivating you become. What would you do for this girl. I imagine you've already daydreamed about her... So would you take a bullet for her landing her at your side in the hospital. Or would you rescue her from a thug if she was getting mugged. Maybe even fend off an evil ex boyfriend who's out to hurt her.... Yea so if you're a nice guy who would do any of these things, what's stopping you from just walking up to her, telling her she's cute, and giving it a shot. Worst case is she'll say "No, sorry I have a boyfriend." or "You seem nice, but I'm not looking right now." And BAMMM you don't have to go on wondering the rest of your summer "What if." Seriously dude, if you want to approach her and be confident, go to the mall and approach 100 people asking for directions or something it doesn't matter if they're Male, female, big, small, hot, ugly... sooner or later you'll realize that people aren't these evil monsters we make them out to be and no one's going to push you to the ground and spit on you.... Now lets say she looks at you and says "ewww" right after you ask for her number... Guess what, would you really want to date someone like that? Win Win. 1
Author raider09 Posted May 3, 2014 Author Posted May 3, 2014 absolutely right. I just don't want to come on too strong.
Assasda Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Well then dont come on too strong. Just say, Im going to a move, at this time. would you want to see it with me. Or say, I;m going to this place at this time, you wanna come with me. And if she says, no. Say Maybe next time. Then just go to those places by yourself
LustAppeal Posted May 3, 2014 Posted May 3, 2014 Coming on to strong is grabbing the girl and pulling her in for a kiss. Or asking her to be your girlfriend without knowing her. If you want advice from someone who spent the past five years developing Small talk skills, a great personal image,and self attributes.... There's no such thing as a bad approach. It's how you deal with it afterwords that will push you back or move you forward. If she says no, don't stop there, realize what you could have done differently and move on to the next girl. If the situation gets awkward or something embarrassing happens, call it out... It shows confidence in yourself and stops the "awkward silence" aftermath. Seriously dude, I did it all. I studies pickup artist book, went online for help, watched youtube series... But in this area there's little theory behind it, everything is learnt through experience... Live in the moment! Hell, after all the studying, practicing, and self finding I tried to get a girl... The girl came to me! Good luck man. Don't beat yourself up if you get turned down. Just say "her loss" until it clicks in. 1
Author raider09 Posted May 3, 2014 Author Posted May 3, 2014 Coming on to strong is grabbing the girl and pulling her in for a kiss. Or asking her to be your girlfriend without knowing her. If you want advice from someone who spent the past five years developing Small talk skills, a great personal image,and self attributes.... There's no such thing as a bad approach. It's how you deal with it afterwords that will push you back or move you forward. If she says no, don't stop there, realize what you could have done differently and move on to the next girl. If the situation gets awkward or something embarrassing happens, call it out... It shows confidence in yourself and stops the "awkward silence" aftermath. Seriously dude, I did it all. I studies pickup artist book, went online for help, watched youtube series... But in this area there's little theory behind it, everything is learnt through experience... Live in the moment! Hell, after all the studying, practicing, and self finding I tried to get a girl... The girl came to me! Good luck man. Don't beat yourself up if you get turned down. Just say "her loss" until it clicks in.[/quote THANKS
LustAppeal Posted May 4, 2014 Posted May 4, 2014 No problem man, You really get good at this stuff when you choose to push past your boundaries. It took allot of courage for me to change, but the fact that you went online to search for an answer tells me you have an advantage many do not... Courage to ask for help.
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