nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Hey all there's this girl I met several months ago , she's pretty , nice body structure , men love her and all. But here's the problem : She texts me everyday, silly conversations like "how are you" "how was your day" , she does this again and again and again (who does that ????) When she doesn't see/hear from me for 1 day she asks me "where do u stay now" ?? (WTF???) Last week she just popped up in my door and ask for some book that I've never even heard of. She calls my friend and tells him to tell me she wants to see me ???? When I first saw her , I almost had sex with her, I fingered and kissed her untill she told me she's a virgin(which I'm skeptical of) she aint ready. The next day she texts me and tells me she's ready to have sex. I bring her to my friends house(there's normal no one, there's always my aunt at my house) she refuses she says she wants to go to a hotel for sex. Today , she texts me and tells me my friend(not even a friend) wants her she asks if she shud d8n him , I tell her "he he's a good guy date him" she immediately refuses and says nah I don't love him (like seriously ??? Why ask if u don't love him) She texts all , I mean all my group of friends on FB. And she asks me why haven't I told my friends about her (Seriously ??? We aint even dating, never had I told her I love her) Would you date this girl , guys ????
Hungup123 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 At first I thought, don't worry man she likes you, but after reading the entire post it might be time to next her. You have to ask yourself if you really want to get involved with crazy. Sometimes it makes life fun.
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 The question isn't if WE would date her but if YOU would date her. And from what you posted I think it's very clear that you have no interest in her. If that is indeed the case, why do you indulge her? If you're not interested in her, tell her and shut her down already. It's clear she isn't picking up on social cues and getting the message that you're not interested. She may also be a bit delusional about your "relationship" therefore the only kind thing to do is to set her straight once and for all. And just an FYI...I'm not sure calling her pathetic is necessary. Some girls (and guys) are just more needy than others. Even more are just not very good at flirting or socializing or keeping their feelings in check. I don't see that as pathetic especially if you've played a part in leading her on in some way. You should take some responsibility in some of this. It's the mature thing to do.
soccerrprp Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Are you two teenagers? She sounds very juvenile/immature...
d0nnivain Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 She's clearly throwing herself at you. From the title of your post you aren't thrilled about this but I get the sense that you would be OK using her for sex. Since you don't seem to have much respect for her, the honorable thing to do is be direct and tell that you are not interested. 8
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 She sounds insecure ..insecure and inexperienced .insecure people do outrageously crazy ****. Couple insecurity with inexperience & you've got yourself a stalker.
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 At first I thought, don't worry man she likes you, but after reading the entire post it might be time to next her. You have to ask yourself if you really want to get involved with crazy. Sometimes it makes life fun. I get what u mean by making life fun.
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 The question isn't if WE would date her but if YOU would date her. And from what you posted I think it's very clear that you have no interest in her. If that is indeed the case, why do you indulge her? If you're not interested in her, tell her and shut her down already. It's clear she isn't picking up on social cues and getting the message that you're not interested. She may also be a bit delusional about your "relationship" therefore the only kind thing to do is to set her straight once and for all. And just an FYI...I'm not sure calling her pathetic is necessary. Some girls (and guys) are just more needy than others. Even more are just not very good at flirting or socializing or keeping their feelings in check. I don't see that as pathetic especially if you've played a part in leading her on in some way. You should take some responsibility in some of this. It's the mature thing to do. Just that she was soo attractive B4 we start getting along. I don't understand what happen to her.
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 The question isn't if WE would date her but if YOU would date her. And from what you posted I think it's very clear that you have no interest in her. If that is indeed the case, why do you indulge her? If you're not interested in her, tell her and shut her down already. It's clear she isn't picking up on social cues and getting the message that you're not interested. She may also be a bit delusional about your "relationship" therefore the only kind thing to do is to set her straight once and for all. And just an FYI...I'm not sure calling her pathetic is necessary. Some girls (and guys) are just more needy than others. Even more are just not very good at flirting or socializing or keeping their feelings in check. I don't see that as pathetic especially if you've played a part in leading her on in some way. You should take some responsibility in some of this. It's the mature thing to do. She's clearly throwing herself at you. From the title of your post you aren't thrilled about this but I get the sense that you would be OK using her for sex. Since you don't seem to have much respect for her, the honorable thing to do is be direct and tell that you are not interested. Do u think its okay to just use her for sex ? I mean after noticing she's too easy , that's what I wanna do too.
Babolat Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Hey all there's this girl I met several months ago , she's pretty , nice body structure , men love her and all. But here's the problem : She texts me everyday, silly conversations like "how are you" "how was your day" , she does this again and again and again (who does that ????) When she doesn't see/hear from me for 1 day she asks me "where do u stay now" ?? (WTF???) Last week she just popped up in my door and ask for some book that I've never even heard of. She calls my friend and tells him to tell me she wants to see me ???? When I first saw her , I almost had sex with her, I fingered and kissed her untill she told me she's a virgin(which I'm skeptical of) she aint ready. The next day she texts me and tells me she's ready to have sex. I bring her to my friends house(there's normal no one, there's always my aunt at my house) she refuses she says she wants to go to a hotel for sex. Today , she texts me and tells me my friend(not even a friend) wants her she asks if she shud d8n him , I tell her "he he's a good guy date him" she immediately refuses and says nah I don't love him (like seriously ??? Why ask if u don't love him) She texts all , I mean all my group of friends on FB. And she asks me why haven't I told my friends about her (Seriously ??? We aint even dating, never had I told her I love her) Would you date this girl , guys ???? I have not read all the replies, but your subject speaks fior itself: "would you date this pathetic girl ??" If you feel she is pathetic, why are you with her?
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Do u think its okay to just use her for sex ? I mean after noticing she's too easy , that's what I wanna do too. OMG NO! If you think she's "pathetic" now, just WAIT until you f*ck her!!!! Talk about being cruel, cold and SELFISH! Seriously, don't do it. Be better than that if you can. Move on already and let her be. 6
Babolat Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Hey all there's this girl I met several months ago , she's pretty , nice body structure , men love her and all. But here's the problem : She texts me everyday, silly conversations like "how are you" "how was your day" , she does this again and again and again (who does that ????) When she doesn't see/hear from me for 1 day she asks me "where do u stay now" ?? (WTF???) Last week she just popped up in my door and ask for some book that I've never even heard of. She calls my friend and tells him to tell me she wants to see me ???? When I first saw her , I almost had sex with her, I fingered and kissed her untill she told me she's a virgin(which I'm skeptical of) she aint ready. The next day she texts me and tells me she's ready to have sex. I bring her to my friends house(there's normal no one, there's always my aunt at my house) she refuses she says she wants to go to a hotel for sex. Today , she texts me and tells me my friend(not even a friend) wants her she asks if she shud d8n him , I tell her "he he's a good guy date him" she immediately refuses and says nah I don't love him (like seriously ??? Why ask if u don't love him) She texts all , I mean all my group of friends on FB. And she asks me why haven't I told my friends about her (Seriously ??? We aint even dating, never had I told her I love her) Would you date this girl , guys ???? Okay, I read the posts. How old are you, 17, 18? Friends houses, friends in the middle of your communication with her, hotels and the like? Really? Date her? No. Date you, no. Too much drama with both. 2
J21 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Stay away from crazy. You don't wanna get involved with that in your life.
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 Okay, I read the posts. How old are you, 17, 18? Friends houses, friends in the middle of your communication with her, hotels and the like? Really? Date her? No. Date you, no. Too much drama with both. 18 , And no I'm mature and have experience of a 40 year old.
amaysngrace Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 18 , And no I'm mature and have experience of a 40 year old. Okay. I believe you. 8
OhThatGirl Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 18 , And no I'm mature and have experience of a 40 year old. Hahahahahaha No. You don't. Because if you had the maturity and experience of even a 23 year old you wouldn't be posting about girls/situations like this on LS. This is a no brainer: Tell her you're not interested and walk away. 5
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 Hahahahahaha No. You don't. Because if you had the maturity and experience of even a 23 year old you wouldn't be posting about girls/situations like this on LS. This is a no brainer: Tell her you're not interested and walk away. So people who post in here in LS are a no brainer ? Including u ?
Keenly Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 You are crazy! Knowing a girl wants me that bad names me feel like I can take on the world. Especially if I liked her in return. 2
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 I'm sensing a troll... 18 but you have the maturity of a 40 year old? Most 40 year old men aren't that mature ya know :laugh: 3
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 Call me crazy but I'd give her a shot. Knowing a girl wants me that bad names me feel like I can take on the world. Especially if I liked her in return. If u don't like her , u only want to have sex with her ???
Author nerdlingZA Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 I'm sensing a troll... 18 but you have the maturity of a 40 year old? Most 40 year old men aren't that mature ya know :laugh: Whatever man.
Keenly Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 If u don't like her , u only want to have sex with her ??? Where did I say that? If I didn't like her, I sure as hell wouldn't be letting her anywhere near my genitals.
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