Driftking102 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Hello. I hadn't even gone on a first date with this chick but red flags started popping up all over the place. So I had accepted her for a lot of things that she was working on with her counselors and such. She had the same heart condition as me and was exactly like me in every way possible. However there were some signs that this was not going to end well even if i met her once. What i found odd was she texted way more then me and was really into me way more then I was into her. She didn't mind it if i talked about future stuff and having kids. We sent videos back and forth of each other through our smart phones and sent multiple pics. Today she spent two hours texting me straight with long paragraph stuff and kept saying OK in big capital letters which annoyed me. She had been through several guys before and her longest relationship had been 3 months. Which doesn't surprise me. Even though I am no person to judge and been in a relationship for 9 months officially and 1 year not official that was abusive. So i overlooked it thinking she was cool. So then she continues to text me and i just get flooded with texts. I couldn't stop them. I thought i texted a lot. She also had a problem with me seeing some of my friends because they smoked weed. I do not personally participate daily in the activity but i did want to introduce her to them one day. She wouldn't have it and said for me to date her then i would need to drop my friend. That was the final straw for me. I told her we were not meant to be and she about bawled saying she wanted to go on a date with me 50 times over. She was 5'8 and i was 5'4. She said height didn't matter. I knew in my gut something was wrong today and my gut is usually right about stuff. She only had one picture on her profile on okcupid and didn't have a lot like the others. She lived an hour and a half away and we were going to meet in the middle. I think I saved myself a lot of stress and heart ache with this woman. What do you guys think? Do you think she was a nut job and clingy??
MidwestUSA Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Yep, you dodged a nut job. You probably would have been a father nine months from your first date with her, and you'd have never seen any of your friends again. Ever. 3
Emilia Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 It's probably best if you never meet her. She has no boundaries.
Hobbes' wagon Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Agree, this one seems like you're better of not getting involved.
Poppygoodwill Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 I think follow your gut. If these things seem like bad signs to you, then they are.
Author Driftking102 Posted May 2, 2014 Author Posted May 2, 2014 I did follow my gut. Personally she wanted me to get rid of my best friend of the 2nd grade because he smoked weed. I was like red flag at that point. Plus we texted for two hours straight and she seemed very clingy. My last relationship even though my ex was very abusive towards me was not that clingy to me and could still be very loyal. I revamped my profile on okcupid and going to get back out there and find someone a little bit more sane.
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Beware of clingy people. If for some reason they make you feel uncomfortable then there's a reason for that. She has no boundaries as someone said before & probably wants to be centre of your universe upon immediately. Let her go. And do it abruptly.
Keenly Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 The girl.you hadn't even met before is already telling you who you can and can't hang out with? Wow... what a psycho.... what a crazy woman. Bros before crazy hoes. Just because he smoked weed? She better avoid about 75 million people. 1
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