Madame_Scarlett Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 So I crushed on this guy I met through a website and we'd been texting consistently for about a week as we live in different states. (He is in his early 40s, I am in my mid 30s.) We'd text late into the nights, several hours at a time, and the conversations were fun and flirty. So he had to move and went MIA, then after about two weeks, he left messages through the website with video links to love songs without further explanations. I texted him the next day and asked him why he sent them to me and he said "they were for my enjoyment." I asked him if he liked me as more than a friend or what was his intent and he said he didn't know me well enough to feel anything beyond that but that "I seemed like I was worth getting to know." I have very little dating experience but why would someone send links to love songs if they weren't attracted? Is he manipulating me? Trying to use me as a sexting partner? Don't know what to think or do, please help.
Poppygoodwill Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 YOu're reading too much into the songs. And he's a lazy arse who isn't really interested beyond getting a little flirtation and attention. I would hang back on thi sone, and see if he reappears in a meaningful way. I have a feeling he moved and he's got lots to occupy him and that's why he's gone quiet.
Gaeta Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 Like the above poster said you are reading too much in the music links. It's just that, links to some music he enjoyed. As for the rest I don't see anything good coming out of this man. Going silent on you is rude, he lives in another state and he can lie all he wants. 1 week, do yourself a favor and abort this.
saltyfishhead666 Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 YOu're reading too much into the songs. And he's a lazy arse who isn't really interested beyond getting a little flirtation and attention. I would hang back on thi sone, and see if he reappears in a meaningful way. I have a feeling he moved and he's got lots to occupy him and that's why he's gone quiet. Hehe you are British too yipeeee!!
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