Cosmohyde14 Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 Met a girl on vacay, 3000 mi away. Instant attraction, we danced, we talked and exchanged numbers. She got ahold of me the next day but I had to leave. When I got back home she sent texts over the next couple of days even after I told her I was in a relationship back home. Now correspondence is barely there. I feel like I missed out on getting to know a good person. The last text she sent was a one word response and that seemed to be the end of it. If anything I just feel like it was a strong attraction, love at first sight type of thing. I know at this point I need to let it go. Due to the distance and my current status it would have never have worked though. She did ask if I would go back to see her someday. Anyone else experience this type of situation? Any advice or insight?
iiiii Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 (edited) She probably came to her senses and realized that despite the instant feeling of attraction, someone already in a relationship, a long distance away, was a really bad match. Edited May 1, 2014 by iiiii 1
Elle1975 Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 I told her I was in a relationship back home That. She probably came back to her senses.
Author Cosmohyde14 Posted May 1, 2014 Author Posted May 1, 2014 Would you agree the best bet is to just cut any contact, even if she reaches out to me. I know even if I did see her again this would not go anywhere, and feel that maybe my feelings are driven by what could have been.
Elle1975 Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 Would you agree the best bet is to just cut any contact, even if she reaches out to me. I know even if I did see her again this would not go anywhere, and feel that maybe my feelings are driven by what could have been. Well, you are in a relationship, so yes. Even if you were single, LDR are hard. Relationships are hard enough when you're 5 miles apart.
Author Cosmohyde14 Posted May 1, 2014 Author Posted May 1, 2014 Thanks for responses. It feels better to talk about it and get confirmation on what I know is best.
Author Cosmohyde14 Posted May 1, 2014 Author Posted May 1, 2014 How can something so short still burn a little? I still think about those few moments we had and ouch. Any advice on getting over it? I feel like I should have not been honest.
TXGuy Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 How can something so short still burn a little? I still think about those few moments we had and ouch. Any advice on getting over it? I feel like I should have not been honest. Talk it through with your current girlfriend. I think she will give you an interesting perspective on it. 1
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