SmellyMelly Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 What are some signs that an ex may want to get back together with you? My ex (who broke up with me) calls me, tells me he misses me, wants to see me....when we do see each other (which isn't very often) he seems really happy to see me....he compliments me a lot....smiles a lot....laughs a lot....So what's the deal with him? What do you guys think? Thanks for any advice and help in advance..... ***BTW we've been broken up for around 2 months or so.
CurvyGurl Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 Does he want to sleep with you? And do you do it? IF so, it's a post breakup booty call. If not, he might actually want to get back together, but unless what broke you up has been resolved, you will have the same problems you had before. Don't go backward, go forward-- if going forward means a change in either of you in behavior or thought process. Do I want to reconcile, or am I simply flattered that he wants to get back together with me? Do I still want to be in a relationship with him? Why does he want to get back together with me? These are questions I would be asking myself.
Author SmellyMelly Posted February 6, 2005 Author Posted February 6, 2005 Well, he does say that he misses having sex with me etc. but no I haven't had sex with him and won't so it's not a booty-call situation. I don't know. I didn't see the break-up coming and I didn't want it. He still hasn't really told me why he broke up with me....but he has said that we didn't get to see each other enough....I don't know. We really didn't have many problems...really. I still love him. I mean LOVE him....I always will....and I admit I want to get back together with him but I'm not going to bring it up...that's him job....after all he did break up with me. He says that he misses me and loves me. Its confusing. He says that he'll always love me...that I'm the most beautiful person that he's ever known....inside and out. That I'm just so beautiful to him. He still tells me that. It's just confusing. I saw him today and it was so good to see him. We ate lunch together....talked and laughed....it was his idea to meet. Another thing...he hasn't told ANYONE that we are broke up. Which is wierd, right? And I know he isn't seeing anyone. He says he doesn't want to..... Maybe it's just me being too hopeful....don't know....
lifestyle1 Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 How do you know if he wants you back? You ask him.
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