Author Midwest guy Posted February 10, 2005 Author Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 Well did she call or write you back? If she doesn't she isn't interested in you and you have to move on buddy!! I told her Id call her later. Also I dont know if she has text or not.
alphamale Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by kanga Now that I think about it more, I have definitely enjoyed the dates more with guys who gave me a choice rather than dictating where we would eat. Hmmm KANGA....so what if a dude give u a choice between Mickey D's, BK's or Taco Hell? Then what would u do?
alphamale Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 D Originally posted by alicia24 You're still trying to get this girl? Oh my. yes, ALICIA24, this will go on until the restraining order is filed with the court.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 10, 2005 Author Posted February 10, 2005 Shes still nice to me and says she would call me. Shes the girl I want and is single only prob is she is 150 miles away.
Hund1976 Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 I think the fact that she doesn't call you back is a little more of a problem then she lives 150 miles away.
HokeyReligions Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by Midwest guy I told her Id call her later. Also I dont know if she has text or not. Then why did you text her? Midwest Guy, seriously, why do you keep posting the same questions and statements? There are no answers here for you. No one can tell you what is going to happen or what to do. You have more than enough suggestions about where to go for dinner. I'm not sure why you keep posting? I know you keep saying that she's the girl you want, but you do realize that we don't always get what we want in life? She's not some product on a shelf that you choose.
tiki Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 And this thread will be shut down too. If after four pages, you don't know what type of restaurant to take her to.... If she's not interested, let her be. If she is interested, that's another story. Nonetheless, if she does decide to date you, you have 4 pages to reference back to upon a decision of where to take her for dinner.
Bronzepen Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Look Midwest, I commend you on your determination, denial, naiveness, blind logic and frivolous pursuit all wrapped up into one ball. So please, do us all a favor. If she doesn't answer or her answer is a possiblity of a definite maybe then......take it as a no...........please. Thank You.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 10, 2005 Author Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by HokeyReligions Then why did you text her? Midwest Guy, seriously, why do you keep posting the same questions and statements? There are no answers here for you. No one can tell you what is going to happen or what to do. You have more than enough suggestions about where to go for dinner. I'm not sure why you keep posting? I know you keep saying that she's the girl you want, but you do realize that we don't always get what we want in life? She's not some product on a shelf that you choose. Product to choose lol. I wish. If she works this summer it will be hell working with her yet seeing her at work everyday and not able to have her go out with me. Id me a nervous wreck.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 10, 2005 Author Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by tiki midwest, how old are you? 21
Hund1976 Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 If you're still obsessed with this girl by summertime you need to do some work with your "head doctor" that's too long to be smitten with one person.
blind_otter Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 It's definately a sign of either obsession, or a person who uses fantasy to distance themselves from a reality they either don't want to or can't accept. Like, a few conversations with someone does not equal love. It can't you don't know her, you don't know if she picks her nose in the bathroom, or if her farts are really loud but completely unscented, or if she often forgets to clip her toenails regularly....I feel that love happens after you've been with someone for a while. I mean, when I was like 12 I had long crushes on boys I never spoke to. But as I got older I realized what you see is NOT what you get!
Author Midwest guy Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter It's definately a sign of either obsession, or a person who uses fantasy to distance themselves from a reality they either don't want to or can't accept. Like, a few conversations with someone does not equal love. It can't you don't know her, you don't know if she picks her nose in the bathroom, or if her farts are really loud but completely unscented, or if she often forgets to clip her toenails regularly....I feel that love happens after you've been with someone for a while. I mean, when I was like 12 I had long crushes on boys I never spoke to. But as I got older I realized what you see is NOT what you get! I didnt say I "love her" lol. I mean shes a nice gal and I want to get to know her better. Thats why I want to go out and do something with her.
tiki Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 So has she commited to go out with you or not?
blind_otter Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Originally posted by Midwest guy I didnt say I "love her" lol. I mean shes a nice gal and I want to get to know her better. Thats why I want to go out and do something with her. HAH! But you did ask if it was ok to tell someone you love them before the first date! weeeeeeeeird.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 Originally posted by tiki So has she commited to go out with you or not? Shes up in Quincy right now couple hours away. I asked her out over xmas break and she said she would call me. She said I was getting pushy though asking her out all the time and she told me she understood I really want to go out but that she was busy seeing friends.
tiki Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Okay. So no date with her? Don't sweat it. You'll find someone else.
Hund1976 Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 If she liked you she would take a little time away from her friends to go out with you. Get some of your buddies and take a road trip to South Padre Island for spring break next month. Maybe you'll get lucky there.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 If she liked you she would take a little time away from her friends to go out with you. Get some of your buddies and take a road trip to South Padre Island for spring break next month. Maybe you'll get lucky there. I might call her tonight. Should I tell her I want to get to know her better? That way it doesnt sound like a date.
Hund1976 Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Ask her for a date and make her give you a yes or no answer, then you'll know for sure and can move on with your life.
Author Midwest guy Posted February 12, 2005 Author Posted February 12, 2005 Originally posted by Hund1976 Ask her for a date and make her give you a yes or no answer, then you'll know for sure and can move on with your life. I called her cell, but her voicemail is on. Shes prob in night class or something right now. Might call later, if not this weekend cause I have to wake up early for work.
VirginiaBob Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 Or better yet, hire a private investigator to find out if she really likes you.
alphamale Posted February 12, 2005 Posted February 12, 2005 Originally posted by VirginiaBob Or better yet, hire a private investigator to find out if she really likes you.
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