you_can_not_see_me Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 I asked out this girl I thought for sure was interested in me, but she said she was seeing someone. then she said she thinks I m an awesome guy and she wants to remain friends and all. Which I guess is standard rejection talk. What confuses me beside the fact that it came out of no where was that she still asked for my phone number. I guess she could just be serious about being friends, but why try to drag this thing out by befriending a guy you just rejected? I should note that this girl is my classmate, and unlike every other day where she was super enthusiastic about talking to me, today she was cold even before I tried to ask her out.
d0nnivain Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Let me try to clear it up. When she asked for your # she was being friendly. Possibly she wanted to be able to call you if she missed a class & needed the notes or wanted somebody to ask a Q of the night before the test. She does like you. You didn't read that wrong but you didn't have all the info. She's seeing somebody else & doesn't cheat. If she had been single most likely she would have gone out with you. She was cold in class because now that you have asked & she said no, she feels awkward & just isn't handling it perfectly. Keep being yourself around her to show no hard feelings & she will come around to her normal self.
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted April 30, 2014 Author Posted April 30, 2014 Let me try to clear it up. When she asked for your # she was being friendly. Possibly she wanted to be able to call you if she missed a class & needed the notes or wanted somebody to ask a Q of the night before the test. She does like you. You didn't read that wrong but you didn't have all the info. She's seeing somebody else & doesn't cheat. If she had been single most likely she would have gone out with you. She was cold in class because now that you have asked & she said no, she feels awkward & just isn't handling it perfectly. Keep being yourself around her to show no hard feelings & she will come around to her normal self. the coldness was before I asked her out, I asked her out after class, she was cold since the beginning of class! she already knows other people in class who tell her about stuff in class, she wouldn't need me for that. But I guess she could have asked for my digits just to be friends.
HopefulHeart23 Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Don't be so hard on yourself OP rejection is part of the dating process. You did a good job in asking her out and Unfortunately she was taken but just keep putting yourself out there I'm sure you will meet a nice girl it's her loss. It's your choice whether you wish to remain friends with her but I would suggest you shouldn't since you like this girl. Good luck.
Author you_can_not_see_me Posted April 30, 2014 Author Posted April 30, 2014 (edited) Don't be so hard on yourself OP rejection is part of the dating process. You did a good job in asking her out and Unfortunately she was taken but just keep putting yourself out there I'm sure you will meet a nice girl it's her loss. It's your choice whether you wish to remain friends with her but I would suggest you shouldn't since you like this girl. Good luck. thanks for the post. I actually got another girl's number and if things go well with her I might be fine with being friends with the OP mentioned girl. If not I might decide to cut contact. Edited April 30, 2014 by you_can_not_see_me
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