LoLWut Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Over the phone and she said no. I played it off like it was nothing (which is true, it's nothing).... guess i am a bit experienced so i can take rejection well and move on. At least i asked and she gave me an answer. But now i noticed she kept going online on Facebook now which is rare, but what i really wanna know is.... what is she thinking right now? Do you think she's having second thoughts? and do you think i gave her an ego boost? From the conversation it doesn't sound like she get asked out a lot cos she doesn't quite know how to handle it..... and also, she is very young. What do you think?
David87 Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 It doesn't matter, you did your job , she declined your invitation. NEXT 7
Omei Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 I think you dont deal with rejection as well as you thought since its got your head spinning about silly things. She gave an answer it ends there. 7
d0nnivain Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 If she is young you may have overwhelmed her or her parents don't allow her to date yet. What's she's thinking doesn't matter as much as what she did, which was decline your invitation.
organizedchaos Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Over the phone and she said no. I played it off like it was nothing (which is true, it's nothing).... guess i am a bit experienced so i can take rejection well and move on. At least i asked and she gave me an answer. But now i noticed she kept going online on Facebook now which is rare, but what i really wanna know is.... what is she thinking right now? Do you think she's having second thoughts? and do you think i gave her an ego boost? From the conversation it doesn't sound like she get asked out a lot cos she doesn't quite know how to handle it..... and also, she is very young. What do you think? I think you are over thinking and over inflating the importance of this. It was just dinner, not a marriage proposal. As for FB and what She's thinking "why do I still get so many FarmVille invitations? Ohhh, Jenny had a baby, I'll like that!" Get my point? 1
Gaeta Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 How old are you? and her? I am pretty sure she is on FB telling everyone of her girlfriends about your invitation and how it took her by surprise, how she handled it, and why she declined. She is probably also asking them if she did the right thing. That is why young girls do, and not so young girls too by the way.
J21 Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Why are you trying to correlate her declining your date to her signing onto facebook more often? How is that even remotely related to her having seconds thoughts? You're thinking she is gonna message you? Uh.... You said it wasn't a big deal, so dont over think it. You got your answer. 2
Mo_Do Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 We really need to break this site into different age brackets: Teens, 20's, 30's, 40's etc. I am SICK of clicking on these stupid threads. 1
J21 Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 We really need to break this site into different age brackets: Teens, 20's, 30's, 40's etc. I am SICK of clicking on these stupid threads. That would be so awesome. Whole heartedly agree.
Omei Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 We really need to break this site into different age brackets: Teens, 20's, 30's, 40's etc. I am SICK of clicking on these stupid threads. We gotta catch the guy that's forcing you to do that!!!!
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