I'm so sad about the summer...

[itsallmental]

It has been just over a month since she left me over distance and for another guy. Summer vacation from college is coming up and I'm feeling really down tonight. I had so many hopes and plans with her for the summer... I can't believe she didn't want to at least try and make us work. I was so good to her, I thought things were going so well. I just keep thinking about this summer, my last in college. I miss her companionship, I miss our intimacy. I just wanted to have a summer with the girl I love. Even though I know it's not right, I want to cry thinking about the times I was looking forward to sharing... How do I cope with this? How can I make my summer a great one without her? I feel so lonely, but I don't feel like I'm ready to date again.. Any advice?

[itsallmental]

I want to make contact so badly, to fight not to lose her. But what's done is done, I can't contact her, I know that. I won't help anything.

[mutualove]

There's no ideal time for a break up,but what you can do is break all forms of contacts with her and never contact her again.

 

If she contacts you ignore unless it's "I want you back" and only then you can consider replying.

 

It's tough I've been there only time can help trust me.

 

However you do not want to sit around the house all alone feeling sorry for yourself.Hang out as much as you can with people and do what you enjoy.Sports are the best

[d0nnivain]

I'm sorry you are hurting. Take some time to grieve. You lost something but it's not the end of the world.

 

Summer is a great time for starting a romance with a new person.

 

Good luck.

[learning_slowly]

Exactly. Summer has more opportunity for outdoor activities and team sports where you can meet new people. More parties go on too.

Just get out there and say yes to the opportunities.

Also seek out your own - ask yourself "what do I want to do this summer, now that I have nobody holding me back ?"

And go for it!