IdontPlayanyGames Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 I have no personality. im not shy i just dont talk a lot. At school it tends to work in my favor. girls notice how quiet i am and go out of there way to flirt. when i take them out they dont expect a great conversation cuz they already know im not a talker. But ive signed up for tinder. already have some good matches and 2 girls have messaged. But idk what to say or how to act... im just not an enthusiastic or interesting guy. only interested in playing sports and working. Dont watch tv. dont like movies. only like underground music. i read but girls my age dont like books. so idk im just lost. any tips?
Assasda Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Seems like you have a lack of self esteem, which is probably the most unattractive thing that you can have going on for you. You may not be an enthusiastic person, but you can damn sure be an interesting, AND interested person. You play sports, you read, You dont think thats interesting? My advice to you is to get help with your self-esteem before you try to get with girls, you have to love yourself before someone else can love you
Phoe Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 i read but girls my age dont like books. so idk im just lost. any tips? doesn't even matter how old you are, there are females of ALL ages who like books. sounds like maybe you should be a little more open minded?
Mrin Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Interesting. Idea: go do your Myers Briggs and post your result in your profile. It may help match you with someone compatible.
Author IdontPlayanyGames Posted April 30, 2014 Author Posted April 30, 2014 Seems like you have a lack of self esteem, which is probably the most unattractive thing that you can have going on for you. You may not be an enthusiastic person, but you can damn sure be an interesting, AND interested person. You play sports, you read, You dont think thats interesting? My advice to you is to get help with your self-esteem before you try to get with girls, you have to love yourself before someone else can love you Idk what in my post would make u think that. but no i dont have self esteem issues. if anything im a bit conceited. i dont talk a lot because i dont have a lot to say. Period. maybe im stupid or something but conversations and banter just arent my strong point doesn't even matter how old you are, there are females of ALL ages who like books. sounds like maybe you should be a little more open minded? the girls who match with me arent the type of girls who enjoy books. ,
Phoe Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 the girls who match with me arent the type of girls who enjoy books Then broaden your criteria!
jonsnuh Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Interesting. Idea: go do your Myers Briggs and post your result in your profile. It may help match you with someone compatible. Is it actually beneficial or a double-edged sword?
Assasda Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 Idk what in my post would make u think that. but no i dont have self esteem issues. if anything im a bit conceited. i dont talk a lot because i dont have a lot to say. Period. maybe im stupid or something but conversations and banter just arent my strong point the girls who match with me arent the type of girls who enjoy books. , If you dont think your interesting, why would anyone what to be around you? You may think your plain, you may think youre not entusiastic, but if you dont think that you have anything interesting to add to anyones life or anything interesting to show anyone, then you might really lack self esteem
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