what do i do? who do i choose?

[kiattykl]

hey all, sorry its so long, but i really really really would appreciate your help!!!

i have replaced names with numbers and symbols:)))

 

i have a friend (1) that i have been friends with for six years, we share a very close bond- but things started to change when he told me he liked me last spring (age 16) . we tried seeing each other for a while, but i freaked a bit and we never went out. he gets jealous very easily and so sometimes it is hard to ask him for advice on boys etc. an old friend also told me recently that he confided in her, telling her that he liked me again, but I'm not sure if its just bs.

 

when i was 14,15 and just before i turned 16 i really really liked this boy in my year (2) whom i was quite close friends with for all that time. he knew i liked him, and toyed on it a bit, before completely ignoring me for 3 months straight. during these 3 months i became really close with his best friend, in an effort to piss him off i'm a bitch, i know we made up in the summer, but i never see him around school anymore. last saturday at a party he was slightly drunk and told me that he liked me all that time, and he still does today. he tried to get off with me, but because i didn't want to upset 1 (whom was also at the party), i couldn't have. i have been texting 2 everyday since, but its slightly awkward. plus i was already in a weird place with another lad...

 

i met this boy (3) at a party through mutual friends, and as soon as i got home from the party i added him on facebook. we talked all of the next day on fbc (he started the conversation) and everyday that week. my best friend (@) and i went over to our friend (£)'s house (@ is friends with benefits with £, and also £ is good friends with 3) and whilst @ and £ were doing stuff, i met 3 and we went for a walk. it was really cute and confirmed my attraction to him. the texting/fbc/snap-chatting started to get slower when we went back to school, and a few weeks later he went a bit weird and he would have gaps where he wouldn't reply for a few days. and thats when i realised i like him. its come to a point now that i am texting him first majority of the time, or we dont speak for a day or so until he texts me. i thought to myself, well clearly he's not interested anymore, but when we do speak he brings up how much he misses me and how he wants to take me out after exams in a few weeks. I'm kinda becoming sick of the situation and holding on to what could happen with 3 is so frustrating.

 

i can not go back to 1.

 

if i chose to go with 2, 1 would get pissed off but idc so much, but i dont know whether he truly meant it or was just trying to "get with" me on that night.

 

if i was to choose 3, both 2 and 1 would be pissed off, and it may backfire as he's really on and off atm. but i like him...

 

 

WHAT THE BLOODY HELL DO I DO?!?! PLS HELP I AM 2 WEEKS AWAY FROM EXAMS AND ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT IS THIS i am so stuck hA

 

 

please comment if i need to clarify anything X

[Phoe]

Choose none of them and focus on your exams and yourself.

[pteromom]

1, your friends have REALLY weird names.

 

2, you can't make decisions for yourself based on how other people will feel about your choices. In other word, you can't not date someone ONLY because some other guy will be upset.

 

Choose the one you want to be with most - ONLY IF he treats you well and is a good person with integrity and honor and values.

 

If you can't see being truly happy with any of them, it is perfectly OK to be single and free. You don't have to choose.

[Assasda]

You certainly know that youre not getting with 1. because he's a friendzoned pansey.

But who the hell cares really?

Post again when you grow up