nyny123 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 I was thinking to give this site a try but the thing is I don't want to pay for a dating site that might be a waste of money so I don't know if it's even worth it.
Joangel Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 (edited) I tried a few dating sites, that are all pretty frustrating as you'll find. Christian mingle was one of the worst. Instead of regular lies, men lie with a sprinke of Jesus. Not to mention all the weirdo psychotic fanatics. If you are not willing to spend $ you want Plenty Of Fish (pof) but I warn you, people can see when you delete their messages and the crazies get mad at that. Every man I chatted with eventually cursed me out. One, because I deleted his message without reading, but in my defense his pic was a carbon copy of Marilyn Manson. The other asked me a bunch of religions questions, he family was from paskistan, so when I asked if he was Muslum he flipped out. Lastly I got lots of FU' s when I wouldn't give out my personal cell number to text them. Don't forget the worst part. These guys are talking to several women at once so much of the time they can't remember the details of the conversation they had with you last. I did end up meeting a man online though completely unitentional. We started chatting though a divorce support group meetup? He wanted info about the meetings and no one else was responding.We both lied about where we lived and it turn out he lived on the other side of town. We dated for eight months. I guess it's not impossible to meet someone online but it is not as easy as people make it seem. Edited April 29, 2014 by Joangel
Speakingofwhich Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 I met someone I dated for a year through Christian Mingle. After we broke up we remained friends, though we don't communicate much I know I could call him anytime and he could call me and just chat. I liked the site. This was six or so years ago. I was also a member of Christian Cafe for a short time which I also liked. But, my problem with OLD is that it seems so one dimensional (meeting men that way). I got to the point where I felt as if I wasn't really giving people the consideration they deserved as, frankly, I found myself judging them on their photos which seems such an incomplete way to judge as far as attraction goes. For me, a person in real life may be very attractive (physically) and yet not photogenic.
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