Col1 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 With online dating profiles, you tend to get to know the profiles available in your area over time. Even if you haven't messages one another. There are a steady group of users that regularly sign-in weekly. I'm sure many ladies in my area recognize my online photo. So... if I've been around on online dating site for a while but didn't message yet... does it now look desperate to send a long-timer lady a first message? It appears as though I've gone through everyone else and now have resorted to finally contacting her (not very flattering!). I'm sure she'd (and you'd) think I'm BS'ing if I try to give an excuse. Just wondering if anyone's thought the same, or if it matters. Thanks for sharing.
compulsivedancer Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 With online dating profiles, you tend to get to know the profiles available in your area over time. Even if you haven't messages one another. There are a steady group of users that regularly sign-in weekly. I'm sure many ladies in my area recognize my online photo. So... if I've been around on online dating site for a while but didn't message yet... does it now look desperate to send a long-timer lady a first message? It appears as though I've gone through everyone else and now have resorted to finally contacting her (not very flattering!). I'm sure she'd (and you'd) think I'm BS'ing if I try to give an excuse. Just wondering if anyone's thought the same, or if it matters. Thanks for sharing. You won't know until you try it. Why knows, you might have good results.
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