3 Months and I have survived!

[bubblesbursted]

I have been thinking everyday of coming on so finally I decided to stop by today and vent it out.

 

So, its been 3 months and I cant believe I have survived this long and surprisingly I have never felt better. I can see why it didn't work out anyway. We were just 2 people having wrong timings that's all. But I am actually never been this happy in the past 3 years of my relationship.

 

1. I got a job 2 months back

2. I enjoy what I do

3. I feel much more confident about my body, I am loosing tons of weight

4. I am enjoying my singlehood

5. And right now I am in a different country altogether enjoying my time!

 

Also, I noticed my tastes have changed. I got a whole new wardrobe. Lots and lots of colorful clothes. Something I never wore in those past 3 years. I got make up for me. Even my friends say I am becoming a girly girl. (which is good I guess? Since i was a tomboy kind of person)

 

And there is one thing which I found out last month. My best friend had planned to go to my ex's home and collect my books on my behalf. She planned all this behind my back, I had no clue. On the day she was supposed to meet him, she got sick and she begged me to go and collect. I went and surprisingly he wasn't there ( THANK GOD FOR THAT!). Instead his mom and his nana were there and through them I got to know how my ex hadnt told them we were done (like wtf?!) and she was saying my ex showed her my pics (of my bday from my fb?!). So he is stalking me etc etc and I eventually blocked him. So I guess thats a progress because I felt in control. But to be honest, now I dont really give a damn if he stalks me or not.

 

Secondly, I don't know if I am 100% over him but I am getting there and well I am noticing some hot guys and have been asked out by some so its good. I have no plans of settling as of now.

 

Third, I just wanted to tell people suffering from a fresh broken heart, PLEASE please listen to what everyone suggest you and keep NC strong. It will make you feel better with time. I know I am not there yet completely but I know I will get there and I cant wait for that day to happen. I know it will happen soon

Edited April 29, 2014 by bubblesbursted

[km19]

I have been thinking everyday of coming on so finally I decided to stop by today and vent it out.

 

So, its been 3 months and I cant believe I have survived this long and surprisingly I have never felt better. I can see why it didn't work out anyway. We were just 2 people having wrong timings that's all. But I am actually never been this happy in the past 3 years of my relationship.

 

1. I got a job 2 months back

2. I enjoy what I do

3. I feel much more confident about my body, I am loosing tons of weight

4. I am enjoying my singlehood

5. And right now I am in a different country altogether enjoying my time!

 

And there is one thing which I found out last month. My best friend had planned to go to my ex's home and collect my books on my behalf. She planned all this behind my back, I had no clue. On the day she was supposed to meet him, she got sick and she begged me to go and collect. I went and surprisingly he wasn't there ( THANK GOD FOR THAT!). Instead his mom and his nana were there and through them I got to know how my ex hadnt told them we were done (like wtf?!) and she was saying my ex showed her my pics (of my bday from my fb?!). So he is stalking me etc etc and I eventually blocked him. So I guess thats a progress because I felt in control. But to be honest, now I dont really give a damn if he stalks me or not.

 

Secondly, I don't know if I am 100% over him but I am getting there and well I am noticing some hot guys and have been asked out by some so its good. I have no plans of settling as of now.

 

Third, I just wanted to tell people suffering from a fresh broken heart, PLEASE please listen to what everyone suggest you and keep NC strong. It will make you feel better with time. I know I am not there yet completely but I know I will get there and I cant wait for that day to happen. I know it will happen soon

 

Everyone should read this thread. Thank you much for positing it. All positive experiences should be posted here.

 

And one more thing. CONGRATS!!! Happy that you're in a better place!

[Grumpybutfun]

Break ups are just a stepping stone to get you to where you really need to be.

Happy you are happy,

Grumps

[bluegreen]

God for you doll its still to early but all left to do is find or let someone fund you.

 

 

[malin819]

Good to see these kind of stories!!! I'm sure I'll make it also!

 

She broke up with me on the 16th of April and we txted one time and I txted her for some stuff left at her house afterwards but she never responded. That tells a lot!

[moonshadow18]

I wrote something about my long distance boyfriend awhileaback and I finally had the courage to end it. He on the otherhand is the one who.blocked me on facebook and Im totally fine with that. I wud have done it myself if he didnt do it first. But he keeps calling me thru his moms account using the freecall thing. But i keep cancelling it. I dont have the guts to block or unfriend his mom so I kmow he stalks me there. Also he keeps texting me, i have my number but i swear dont have any plans responding back or anything to that effect. It just giving me heartaches and chestpains everytime i get to read what he writes to mem He did a lot of things that really hurts and upseta me and weve just been going bavk and forth so i know its best to end it. But its really hard, i wish i cud fast forward everything. I still think of him and stuff but the good thing i dont cry as bad as before abymore. Maybe i knew this was coming but i just didnt think.it wud hurt this much.

 

I hope id have great result like this also - sooner than later I wish.

[thysecret]

I wish in 3 months time, i can be like you. BU 1 month ago, starting NC again today. He is interested in someone new so i'm moving on.

we are in a LDR so it's so much easier!

I'm starting to lose weight

It hurts but it just keeps getting better!