What do you like in a potential partner? (Keep it Clean)

[Silver93]

I am quite a quiet guy but there is nothing more attractive to me than a fun, bubbly, confident, out going girl. (Must be opposite attracts)

 

I also like a girl with feminine hands. If a girl I like has nice feminine hands, it always makes her even more attractive to me.

 

So guys and gals what do like in a potential partner?

[Michelle ma Belle]

Oh my...so many things...the two main qualities I seek in a partner are;

 

I am a sucker for a guy with a great sense of humor. He's gotta love to laugh but at the same time know when to be serious too.

 

I also LOVE intelligent men. Smart without being condescending is very attractive. I like a man who can carry a conversation about anything but is also open to hearing other points of view - a trait that seems to be much harder to come by than you might think.

 

As for physical attributes I like, I prefer him to be taller than me, I prefer dark haired men, I love strong hands, a beautiful smile and soulful eyes are the first things that I look for as they can say a lot about a man.

 

Having said all of that, I have become much more open about these more superficial attributes over the years and choose not to hang my coat on just one thing anymore. It's more about the overall character and integrity of the man that captures and holds my attention rather than any physical feature he may have.

[Silly_Girl]

Most of all - kindness and humour.

[pteromom]

I'm married, but can still say what I find attractive, right?

 

Kindness to me, others, animals, and children.

 

Someone who enjoys laughing a lot and finds humor and joy in life.

 

Respectful.

 

Twinkling happy eyes.

 

Clean white teeth.

 

Non-smoker; non-drinker (or light drinker); non-drug user.

[Silver93]

I personally find if a girl smokes it is a huge turn off.

[ltjg45]

Obviously, I not going to say "attractive" because that should be an universal quality for everyone when looking for potential mates.

 

1. Not a smoker

2. Doesn't have an alcohol addiction (prefer one that almost never drink, like once every 2 weeks at the most)

3. Has morals

4. Has a job

5. If she has kids, they are taken care of (prefer women who has no children)

 

That is basically what I am looking for in a woman.

 

Deal breakers? I could write a book on that.

[Haydn]

Smokes heavily

Binge drinker

Gambler

Like curry

Credit card fiend

Own teeth

Bunk up on a Thursday )Thursday spelt with an F)

Says somefink instead of something.

Carries french ticklers in her bag

Footy fan.

Likes chilli sauce

 

 

 

 

Perfect.

[Shepp]

Physically, i do have a "type" that i tend to go for, not set in stone im just usually attracted to girls who are pretty, petite, brunette, long hair, nice teeth.

But the one thing that does completely change whether or not I'm attracted to a girl is her eyes - I'm a sucker for amazing eyes!

 

Traits wise...

Great sense of humour, makes me laugh, gets my jokes! Someone who's up for some playful banter.

Motivated in life but equally able to kick back and be silly.

Generally optimistic

Someone who can engage with almost anyone - I find that really attractive!

Feisty! Speaks her mind!

Likes kids ....and dogs

Is passionate!

Really down to earth!

Likes outdoor activities! Camping, climbing, boating! Isn't afraid of a bit of mud

 

I could write a long list I guess, haha, but mostly someone who's company I enjoy - who I feel relaxed with. I guess that's the most important one!

[compulsivedancer]

Intelligence. I don't care if he's a bit nerdy, as long as he's got social skills and we can have a great conversation.

[dragon_fly_7]

Kindness

Book smart

Applies the same standards to himself and not just demands those in a woman

Not a heavy smoker nor alcoholic

Not loose

Good hygiene

 

I don't ask too much, just basic important qualities I think both genders should have when seeking a quality person.

[EasyHeart]

Boobies.

 

Also, no penis.

[sillyanswer]

So guys and gals what do like in a potential partner?

 

Female, pretty, not overweight, non-smoker, ability and desire to go for a walk in the country without getting out of breath in a flat field and without being concerned that there's no phone signal, lives closer than 2 hours away, unafraid of holding hands and kissing in public, unfussy eater, likes beer.

 

Those aren't all deal-breakers, thankfully, or I'd never find anyone!

[EverLastluv]

Opposites attracts! I believe not every one gets what they wants or desire for .... I been looking for 8 years for what I thought I wanted in a man. Surely I am engaged to a man that is the totally opposite of what I wanted lol so far its going, been together a year and over.

Edited April 30, 2014 by EverLastluv

[ThaWholigan]

Intelligence

A bit of combativeness

Passion

Tactile (not all the time! )

High libido

Open-minded

[sillyanswer]

Intelligence

A bit of combativeness

Passion

Tactile (not all the time! )

High libido

Open-minded

 

That's a great list!

[ThaWholigan]

I like the same...but what is "tactile"?

Likes to touch/be touched.