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Broke up with my girl about 20 days ago we meet each other a few times during these days but nothing was fixed.we suppose to end up as friends but I for think we are she told me I only hurt more when I see her that she does not like to see me like that that it would be best if I don't see her anymore.the last time I saw her she told me she could offer friendship or it's over.when I ask her if there might be a chance of getting back she tells me she don't know that we will see in the future that she does no know if she loves me anymore.its getting really hard to not call or tex her i mess up by texting her yesterday and no reply now my body and brain tell me to go and find her to talk to her .sorry for grammar but right now I cannot concentrate on anything my brain is just on panic

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my body and brain tell me to go and find her to talk to her

 

Unfortunately, it's your heart. And your heart, feelings, affects your body. You're anxious. It's perfectly normal. Unfortunately it's a phase you have to go through. I did, and most people here did too.

 

Keep contacting her and you will make things a lot worse for you, and for the relationship. The relationship is over. She said so, in weak words "she don't know that we will see in the future that she does no know if she loves me anymore". Unfortunately it makes you hope for the best. She does know that she doesn't love you anymore. Is it over forever? I don't know, but I'd walk away considering it is so.

 

Post here more. It helps.

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You really need to stop contacting her.

 

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