Leaf Posted February 5, 2005 Posted February 5, 2005 The dreaded Valentines Day. I hate this effen holiday. Who's sick idea was it to make this a holiday?? Who?! So... I remember last year.. and how much I hated every single second of that night knowing he was with her. How are you guys going to handle V day? Do you think he will try to make it special for you? Are you going to try and do something for him? Or are you boycotting it altogether?
ww Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 WOW! I can tell how you feel...since my story started on that day 2 years ago. Last year? I was suffering like a dog on V day. This year? well this year I hate him! and yes I hate V day too
lynnered Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 well i broke up with mm but every year it was always lonely it'll be lonely this year cause it'll make me miss him even though we always celebrated it on other days(as w/h most holidays). i think all the ow that mm cant spend vday with mm should have a romantic time by themselves ,bubble bath&a nice dinner if nobody sends you flowers send em your self !!
newby Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 make it a self love day, make it worse for mm on that day by ending it first and make it a day you are nice to yourself by not being in a situation where you have no power/status/respect and you begin on the self help. pamper yourselves you deserve it
izzybelle Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 i hate V day too!!!!! last year this time, MM still thought his marriage was ending this summer and we were talking about all the wonderful things we wanted to do this year for V day. yeah WHATEVER!!!!!! i could have set up a dinner date with a single guy and purposefully told him i wasn't available that day but tues. would be good. somehow having something to do with someone else felt weird. i've come a long way to putting MM in my past but i know it's going to be a difficult day and i'm not looking forward to it. and i'm definitely planning on taking a nice long bubble bath, glass of something soothing but definitely alcoholic. i'm trying to decide whether or not i can avoid sending him an email just wishing him a happy v-day. i'm almost to the point where i could wish him a happy v-day with his wife, but there's still the temptation to hope he's going to be spending most of it alone! today's not easy either. last year we spent a lot of time emailing and talking on the phone while the super bowl was on. but it seems like all the single guys in my life are off with friends and family today and i know i'll be sitting here thinking about last year. in short february just SUCKS!!!!
KissMyTiara Posted February 6, 2005 Posted February 6, 2005 V Day isn't going to be any more difficult for me than Christmas and/or New Years. Those were horrible. The whole season was horrible. I am working NOW to prevent myself from being in that sort of pain again this year. Think of V Day the way most men do - as a holiday concocted by Hallmark and See's. If he's giving her flowers and candy, it's because he's "supposed to" on that day, of all days. But what matters is what he's doing every other day of the year... He ain't being too kind to her, is he?
StillHurtin Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by KissMyTiara V Day isn't going to be any more difficult for me than Christmas and/or New Years. Those were horrible. The whole season was horrible. I am working NOW to prevent myself from being in that sort of pain again this year. Think of V Day the way most men do - as a holiday concocted by Hallmark and See's. If he's giving her flowers and candy, it's because he's "supposed to" on that day, of all days. But what matters is what he's doing every other day of the year... He ain't being too kind to her, is he? Yea, I find it pretty hypocritical for a MM to be screwing around and then giving his W a V Day gift. Why even bother? It's just a way to cover his sorry, cheating a$$.
Mr Spock Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Yeah, and a celebration of a relationship based on lies and dysfunction.......woo hoo!!
izzybelle Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Yeah, and a celebration of a relationship based on lies and dysfunction.......woo hoo!! so true! i'd actually love to send my exMM a chocolate penis for V-Day since he's been such a di*k!!
StillHurtin Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 Originally posted by izzybelle so true! i'd actually love to send my exMM a chocolate penis for V-Day since he's been such a di*k!! LOL!!! A chocolate penis? Do they even make those? LOL! That would be such a riot to see his expression getting that!
izzybelle Posted February 7, 2005 Posted February 7, 2005 i've seen them somewhere....wish i could remember! and i'm sure his expression would be priceless!
Author Leaf Posted February 14, 2005 Author Posted February 14, 2005 Well.. D-Day is here.... Hugs for everyone. ...on a side note.. I was asked by MM if I had recieved anything in the mail yet.. I told him that I got a bill on Saturday and asked if he wanted it
SkyJumper Posted February 15, 2005 Posted February 15, 2005 This is the first Valentine's Day that had really gotten close to me.
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