somedude81 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 As a man, it's my job to go for it. As a woman, it's her job to stop me. As I said in many other posts, sl*ts, overall, are not good to be in a relationship with. That really is a horrible mindset. You might as well tell women upfront that if they have sex too soon you will loose all respect for them.
topaMAXX Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 That really is a horrible mindset. Well now, isn't this the pot calling the kettle black You might as well tell women upfront that if they have sex too soon you will loose all respect for them. Then they wouldn't do it because they will know that I don't like it. How could I properly screen them then?
somedude81 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Well now, isn't this the pot calling the kettle black I don't lost respect for women after having sex with them. Nor do I try to make somebody do something that I want, but will actually make me lose respect. Then they wouldn't do it because they will know that I don't like it. How could I properly screen them then?Have some self-control. Forget about the, it's your job to get them to put out quickly bullsh*t. If you know that you will lose respect then don't have sex till you feel that you've earned it.
Andy_K Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 My best relationships have started with sex on the first or second date. If you don't respect her after sex, then you didn't really respect her before sex either. And if you'll have sex with someone you don't respect, it says a lot about your general character.
topaMAXX Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 I don't lost respect for women after having sex with them. Nor do I try to make somebody do something that I want, but will actually make me lose respect. Have some self-control. Forget about the, it's your job to get them to put out quickly bullsh*t. If you know that you will lose respect then don't have sex till you feel that you've earned it. That's the whole point. It's THEIR job to make me feel as if I've earned it. Sex is still fun and I'll continue to have sex with the girls if they let me. I just won't see them as a long-term option.
topaMAXX Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 My best relationships have started with sex on the first or second date. If you don't respect her after sex, then you didn't really respect her before sex either. And if you'll have sex with someone you don't respect, it says a lot about your general character. I respect people until they give me a reason not to respect them. A girl giving it up too easy is one way I quickly lose respect for them. Chances are she's done that multiple times in the past and women simply should not do that.
RedRobin Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 That's the whole point. It's THEIR job to make me feel as if I've earned it. Sex is still fun and I'll continue to have sex with the girls if they let me. I just won't see them as a long-term option. That's fine. You will likely miss out on some very good women with your attitude. I don't have sex early, but not so I can prove to a guy I am not a sl*t. I do it because I don't like sleeping with a holes... ... And you would come across as an a hole for even trying that early. You would to lots of women. Besides... If you are having sex with everything that lets you... Why should I trust YOU? If you can't demonstrate any self restraint with me, I could and would very easily would conclude you are impulsive and have no self control.
ThaWholigan Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 So I got a question for fellow men out there, when you do get a girl the easiest of ways, (wooing her and her felling for it immediately) chances are in the future, would you still value her? You might go about thinking (I got her with no hardships, challenge) and will result in you taking the girl for granted in the future, guys do you agree with this one? I'm not much of a woo-er but generally it depends on how much friction there is. Generally, it's unlikely I would take her for granted or "devalue" her in anyway, but I would expect there to be some kind of friction in terms of differences and likely if they are intelligent women then they will do! I move fast when I know what I want anyway, I'd imagine that a woman who is attracted to me and on my wavelength will also do the same. Hardships and challenges suggests the seduction is labored and you have to "work for it" where I don't see seduction as work.
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