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He prefaced it with "she's no you" but here's my golf partner today.."

 

Then photo of woman in underwear on the beach with her golf club.

 

I am so angry right now. It is killing me not to reply something mean. Grrrrrr.

 

Why would you not reply something mean???? Go ahead and let it out !! Tell him what a jack@ss he is!

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I think:

- Text him and say you don't think this should go any further and it's too soon to even think of spending the night,

- Definitely don't offer any sort of refund whatsoever - you didn't ask him to buy the ticket just like the tshirt for your child,

- Do not acknowledge the photo he sent to make you jealous.

 

He probably does this often, women falling for his 'generosity' and feel guilty about saying no.

 

I can bet that if you went, you won't hear from him again. Frequent flier miles are easy to spend and I bet there could be lots others he's spending it on.

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Well I called the airline and cancelled the flight. He got a full refund of his miles.

 

I texted him and said the picture was totally inappropriate. He apologized. Said he was wrong.

 

I said I forgive him but that I don't believe this will work for me.

I wished him well. M

He texted back and said he could sort of sense I didn't want to come for the weekend and that he sure hopes I didn't back out just because of the picture.

 

I haven't responded.

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I'm glad to hear he got his miles back.

 

Just call him & say this isn't working for you & wish him well. Classy is always the best choice.

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Well I called the airline and cancelled the flight. He got a full refund of his miles.

 

I texted him and said the picture was totally inappropriate. He apologized. Said he was wrong.

 

I said I forgive him but that I don't believe this will work for me.

I wished him well. M

He texted back and said he could sort of sense I didn't want to come for the weekend and that he sure hopes I didn't back out just because of the picture.

 

I haven't responded.

 

Yea, don't reply. His comment about sensing that you didn't want to do the weekend is his 'excuse' for sending the pic. BS.

 

 

You did good, and you're done!

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