azerty Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 (edited) Hi everybody, Well here is my problem. I met this girl at a friend's place; we talked for a very long time and she seemed to really enjoy the conversation. And I was too. We talked for the rest of the night and before she left I gave her my phone and she entered her name and phone number (she didn't even want to leave. Her friends left and she stayed with me for a little bit more). The next day I sent her a text and told her that I enjoyed our conversation and I hope I will see her again before she leaves (she is graduating in couple weeks). She told me she did as well, and she seems to be interested in seeing me again. She said she is sure we will meet again and she told me she will be around until the end of May. She typed her full name in my phone when she was entering her number. So I went on Facebook to look her up. The problem is there is a high probability that she has a boyfriend. Now I'm not sure if I should pursue this. I'm not into "taking someone else's girlfriend" or getting a girl to cheat with me. But yet I want to try my chance with her. I'm frustrated by this and part of me just want to move on. Should I just act like there is nothing and go on with it until she tells me if she is in a relationship? Thanks for your inputs! Edited April 28, 2014 by azerty
averytt10 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 You might think im a little young to answer as i am only a teen. But because of my amazing relationship i think i could be fairly credible. What i think u should do is ask her. Call her or start texting her. Just start a conversation ask how shes doing. After u get into the conversation say something like have you been out lately or even go ahead and ask are you in a relationship. If she isnt great! Go after her if ur a good friend itll almost make her love u! But if shes taken keep talking to her but dont try to steal her that causes trouble and is wrong. What happened with me is i was literally my girlfriends best friend. I talked to her more than her bf did cuz he was neglective any problem she had she would bring to me and when she knew she had me when she was sad she left her bf. and was totally ok cuz i cheered her up. Three days later i asked her out she didnt at all hesitate. Weve been together for 9 months. My point is the friend zone is fake. Girls like guys who are there for them. Dating or not. So if shes taken. Just become friends and maybe things will turn out well. If not I believe every person has another that was made for them and maybe she wasnt it. Just keep looking! 1
Hopeful30 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Just ask her. If you dont' want to, go after her anyways. If she allows you to, then boyfriend or not, she is looking for a romantic partner. The question then would be, are you willing to be with a woman who is like that? 1
babycakees Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 First...What makes you think she has a boyfriend? You don't know for sure until you ask. So I would start off by asking her. Just ask her if she is seeing anyone and go from there. 1
Author azerty Posted April 29, 2014 Author Posted April 29, 2014 You might think im a little young to answer as i am only a teen... It doesn't matter haha. Humans are emotional beings and when emotions take over even a baby can teach you a lesson. Anyway thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Author azerty Posted April 29, 2014 Author Posted April 29, 2014 Thanks for the advises guys. I think next time I see her I'll just ask and then go from there. 1
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