zols Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 A guy asked me out a couple of times and as I am quite reserved and not sure I turned him down. We kept in communication and I eventually developed strong feelings and ended up asking him out. He just started dating someone else and didn't think it was the right thing to do do, to go out with me, but I am pretty sure he still likes me and is torn. I am going crazy thinking about this as I stuffed it up. I know that his relationship may not last, in the meantime should I cut off contact with him and keep the lines of communication open? If he really liked me would he still do the "right" thing and only date one person? I am tempted to also tell him again that i still have really strong feelings to get this off my chest - will this push him away? Appreciate any advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 He had the chance to ask you out OP. It's not that easy to scare guys off, trust me. I have one still talking to me after my kicking his backside about ... dunno 3 times? He is seeing someone else, you need to move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Don't confess your feelings to him now as he begins a new relationship. That will make you look nutty. You don't have to go NC but you should put some distance in your relationship. You need to have your inner green-eyed monster under control when you are forced to interact with the new GF. Link to post Share on other sites
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