yorozo Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 (edited) So there is this guy that I had madeout with, cuddled and spent two nights with, without any sex (was offered but him to which i said no because i knew he was leaving soon). We had connected after I met him through a friend's guy friend, and ended up talking for hours. We talked through texting, snapchat, etc. But he left to go on leave and visit his family (he is millitary) for a week and is going to be deployed from there and will not be back till nearly January. After the last time we hung out it was like he was ignoring me, but he had said he liked me and some other nice things. I thought that because I didn't have sex with him (I told him I wanted to take it slow, I am a virgin) so I thought that that was why he just dropped me. But after five days of no contact, he texted me first and then we texted back and forth just a couple times before he stopped replying to me. This is confusing me more because I stopped trying to contact him for those days to give him space as he is on vacation with his family, yet he texted me first and then all of the sudden stopped replying again. **Now he texted me saying he was bored and we ended up skyping a little... What do you think I should read into this guy? I think he's pretty rad and no matter what wanted to be his friend and then when he is back in town see how things go, but now this off and on contact confuses me. Edited April 28, 2014 by yorozo
J2911 Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Hello, I don't know your age, nor his age however , my personal opinion is that it sounds like he is a mind player a bit by the off and on , cold , hot , come ,go stay type of guy. I would not be receptive to anyone as such because I don't find that flattering , or kind to do to another person , nor would want it done to me . If I were you , being a virgin , I would not advise you to give your virginity to a guy that acts as such. Save yourself for a nice person who is in it for the long haul that will love you and be patient with you. Better yet , save that for marriage. You've came so far , that is beautiful !!! If you really click with him as a friend then be his friend. At least staying friends allows you the sanity to not be heart confused by his on and off behavior. Why let a friend affect you because there is no love ties there. So be his friend only . That is my thought about your post . Best of luck to you !
Assasda Posted April 30, 2014 Posted April 30, 2014 The post is a little hard to follow. Why do you want to read him? what is there to read? If you like him contact him, if you dont dont. I dont even understand what youre asking? Mind reading tricks?
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