Sagittarius Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) So 7 days ago an ex I missed messaged me. We hadnt talked for 4 years. I missed her soo much. She wanted to be "all cute and flirty with me" she said. These other girls on my FB were trying to flirt with me, and she got so pissed, sent me a long message thinking I was "leading her on" and blocked me :/. i cant control what other girls say to me. & I should be allowed to talk and maybe even flirt with other girls while i'm SINGLE. I havent even dated for 3 years! Ugh did i screw up, or is she too possessive/controlling? I feel like a loser and so sad now. Was I wrong? What do I even do now? Where do I go from here? If it helps, me and her are both 20 years old. Edited April 27, 2014 by Sagittarius Additional information maybe important.
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 If things went down as you say they did, I think she's the one with the problem, not you. You're absolutely correct that you can't control what people say or post on FB and if you're single, flirt all you want! She can't come back into your life after being M.I.A. for 4 years and start demanding and/or accusing you of things. It wreaks of immaturity and insecurity which isn't your problem. You did nothing wrong from what I can see. As for what to do next, do you want her back? How did things end the first time? Who broke up with whom? Why was there no contact for 4 years? How did she come to make contact with you again after all this time? 1
Author Sagittarius Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 If things went down as you say they did, I think she's the one with the problem, not you. You're absolutely correct that you can't control what people say or post on FB and if you're single, flirt all you want! She can't come back into your life after being M.I.A. for 4 years and start demanding and/or accusing you of things. It wreaks of immaturity and insecurity which isn't your problem. You did nothing wrong from what I can see. As for what to do next, do you want her back? How did things end the first time? Who broke up with whom? Why was there no contact for 4 years? How did she come to make contact with you again after all this time? Thanks for the quick answer, I just made my account. To answer your questions.. 1. Even though she hurt me again, yes I do want her back 2. She moved away to Florida (I'm from New England so we had to break up) 3. She made the decision 4. I'm not sure, but she sent me a friend request on FB and I accepted it with hope and happiness.
d0nnivain Posted April 28, 2014 Posted April 28, 2014 You didn't do anything wrong. She's a drama queen who hasn't grown up since she dumped you when she was 16. If anything she got worse. Don't go backwards in like. Move forward without her. If you take her back, you will be on here constantly complaining. 2
Author Sagittarius Posted April 28, 2014 Author Posted April 28, 2014 You didn't do anything wrong. She's a drama queen who hasn't grown up since she dumped you when she was 16. If anything she got worse. Don't go backwards in like. Move forward without her. If you take her back, you will be on here constantly complaining. Thank you Good advice:)
Author Sagittarius Posted April 28, 2014 Author Posted April 28, 2014 Thank you Good advice:) bump!!! anyone else?
Author Sagittarius Posted April 29, 2014 Author Posted April 29, 2014 bump!!! anyone else? I want to know what other people think :/
ExpatInItaly Posted April 29, 2014 Posted April 29, 2014 Of course you didn't do anything wrong. You broke up four years ago. She is emotionally immature and way over-stepping her boundaries. Tell her to take a flying leap.
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