Should I delete my ex from skype? Haven't talked to her in so long.

[lovers]

Broke up along time ago 2 or 3 years with back and forth trying to get back with one another, 6 months now that I haven't talked to her. I deleted her from all my social media from day one, recently I saw her on skype and she logs on sees me and now she leaves her skype on 24/7 now. I see her and want to shoot her a hi. Should I just leave her on but not log on skype anymore or just delete her forever. Seeing her makes me want to ask her how she is doing, its back and forth whether I want to say hi to her or continue to stop talking to her

[Joangel]

What do want in the end. If you want the possibility of talking to her again, leave it. If not out she goes. I made the mistake of not deleting someone, I eventually forgot about it. Then out of the blue he started sending me messages looking to hook up. It ruined my day, I hated that he had access to me when he wanted. After that I blocked him from everything. Lesson learned.

[lovers]

its confusing for me, I guess when I want to talk to her I want to talk to the old her, she was a good gf, but what she did after we broke up is messed up. So I am conflicted wondering if she changed or something. If it was the old her I would deff want to talk to her but not whom she became after the break up. I hope she changed, I haven't talk to her in awhile so don't know, it was fresh after a break up so didn't see her in the best light.I think about saying hi hows are you doing. I think she has a new bf now so don't want to interfere, plus she hasn't drop hints that she wants to talk to me nor I with her. I find it odd tho that she used to never sign on skype anymore and when me and her were on at the same time once, she just kept her skype logged on 24/7 now. I log in at random times of the day out of curiosity to check if shes on. Also, the last time we talked was before I grad from college and she hinted she wanted to meet up and study together for this class we had, that she would buy me dinner, but I declined saying it wouldn't be a good idea. What do you think?

Edited April 27, 2014 by lovers

[lovers]

anyone have any advice to give?

[lovers]

Been broken up for awhile now probably 3 years, before I grad college my ex messaged me asking to meet up and help her "study" for a class and that she would buy me dinner. I declined saying its not a good idea but if she has questions I can help her. That was that. Recently on skype my ex messaged me saying did you message me? I wrote back confused saying I did? what did i write? I have always been firm with the no contact rule we had a really bad break up and I think theres always feelings with each other, but I held firm with no contact and ignored her blah blah i love you blah blah crap. after so long I have always wanted to talk to her just see how she is doing, talk to her, no sex or anything jsut talk, even till now. She hasn't responded to my message for a week, so was wondering if i should just initiate more of a convo saying how are you? or just leave it at that?

[nerdlingZA]

even till now. She hasn't responded to my message for a week

 

And u still want to contact her once more and embarrass urself ? She's clearly not interested in you.

[lovers]

you are right, don't get back into that mess.