Ruby Slippers Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 He's not that into you. If he were, he wouldn't be texting another woman and cruising the dating site. He's a dead end and a waste of your time.
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 1, 2014 Posted May 1, 2014 From my experience there is a reason why u cant read them and its never a good ending!! x
brooklynbornxo Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 I may be the only one who thinks it isn't that serious. You guys have only been on 5 dates, you're still getting to know each other. You also know that it isn't exclusive so of course he's going to try to get to know other girls to figure out what it is he is really ready for. You have to take into consideration that not everyone is ready to settle down as quickly as you may want. Maybe in a few more weeks or so, he'll be ready to settle down with you, but you can't be mad at him for mingling when you two aren't even together.Single is single...he's still on the market
hopefullove Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 i have been dating a new guy for 12 dates now and he has only been on his phone once and he apologized for being rude but it was to check on his friends who were coming/driving into town within the hour that he had wanted me to meet. So that is my comment about texting. And i do not text during dates. At least not while the person is infront of me, and get really turned out if the other person does. Mmmm... About the paying bit... All my boyfriends generally pay for me, maybe I am old fashioned that way. But i made dinner and buy groceries and sometimes presents, and movies, but generally for dinner out, i kind of expect my date to pay, because i have been accustomed to that. Maybe I have also been dating old fashioned guys as my boyfriends are from Europe.
Poppygoodwill Posted May 2, 2014 Posted May 2, 2014 You're not exclusive, so he can text and date whomever he wants. As can you. No fair getting mad about it. YOu're trying to read the tea leaves, and figure out if his being active on the dating site is a sign that he's not really interested. But it's perfectly normal for people to continue dating until they have THe Chat. He initiates, he takes an interest, you enjoy his company and you have no other reason to doubt his sincerity except this rude texting over dinner and the fact that you spied his active profile. I'd say you're being too hard on him and looking for problems before they exist. Though next time he's texting over dinner, even if it's his mother, I would sweetly tell him that you want all of his time and attention at that point because you're so enjoying his company, as a way to get him to stop being rude.
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