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Writing this on my phone so im sorry for the typos.

 

The mother of child has left me for another man and is making my life miserable. We have known each other all our lives. She is my best-friends older sister. In 2011, my aforementioned best-friend committed suicide. Immediately after his death, whilst she was still with her old boyfriend, she began spending time with another one of our friends and being intimate with him. I would see her quite often during this time. I began receiving e-mails from her about 1 week after my best-friends death. The e-mails said that she was falling in love me and having dreams about me. I was very lonely at this time in my life after recovering from a heartbreak that landed me in the hospital, plus the fact that my closest friend in the world was dead. Due to this, I was flattered but hesitant to respond to her strange and constant communication. She lived in another state with a marijuana grower, I also though that her shacking with my other friend was strange as well. I ignored her advances until she invited me and my friend that she was leading on to a vacation house with her family to celebrate her brother's (my best-friends) life. I agreed to go but had no intention of becoming romantically involved with her.

 

She asked me to pick her up from the airport, and i agreed. We went back to my apartment and talked. Eventually, i tried to bring her home but she begged to lay in my bed next to me. She was smoking hot, and it had been a year since i slept with someone. I was lonely. So, we ended up having sex, she basically threw herself at me.

 

After that, I was hooked. The sex was so intense and passionate. We went to her families lakehouse and couldn't keep our hands off each other. She told me she loved me and wanted to marry me. My friends heart was broken and he had to witness this happening. I thought that she had told him she was not interested in him, but found out that was one of many lies she told me.

 

After our trip I traveled to Colorado to pick her up from her house where she and her boyfriend of seven years lived. She was leaving him and starting a life with me. She told me that her relationship with him had been over for quite some time.

 

We moved back to Wisconsin and stayed at her parents house in her brothers, my best friends old room, this is where our son was conceived. I dropped out of college and got a job to support our family. We moved into our own place and got engaged. I so happy. She was promising me eternal love and a family.

 

I worked consistently and she never had a job. I started to notice her temper and lack of responsibility, she always made comments that made her look stuck up and conceited. Her mother is the most narcissistic person i had ever met so i thought it was her listening to her mother.

 

Anyway, after the birth of our son she began taking weekend trips 250 miles away to attend college, leaving me to care for our infant child alone for 4 days at a time. I knew something was going on, but everytime i asked her about it, she would turn it around on me and call me jealous and insecure.

 

Time passed, i bought her a car and got a promotion at work. I always had a feeling that she was cheating but she was very good at lying to me.

 

Then, one day i returned home from work to find all of her and my sons belongings gone. I called her and asked her how she could do this to me. She told me that i was mistaken and she was not leaving me, she simply took a internship in a different city and was going to come back and forth. Bring a trusting man, i believed her and we continued our relationship. Then she left me with our son and did not come home or return my phone calls for a week straight. Then, one she showed up at my house with her father attempting to get our son. He was sleeping so i refused to give him to her. She then filed a motion with the court to attempt to get sole custody of our son. Distraught, depressed and heartbroken i returned my son to her.

 

Since we were not married the court ruled that she was allowed to take my son to her new city. I was heartbroken and attempted suicide. After that she came back to me and apologized. We decided that i should move with her and my son. I got a place in the city that she was in, and on the day i was to move in she told me that she was taking my son and moving to the city where her school was. She is 30 years old and still in school.

 

She totally cut off contact with me. She defaulted on the car loan i got her. Changed her phone number and would only allow me to email her. I knew she left me for a man from her school but she would not admit it. she told me she still loved me but needed time to concentrate on herself.

 

Then, my mother went to retrieve my son from her while i was working and she decided to bring her new boyfriend along. Thats how i found out, from my mother. She now has her parents caring for my son and i have had to hire a lawyer to protect myself from her attempts to get my son out of my life. She attempted to file a restraining order against me one week after she told me she loved me. Luckily my lawyer got it dismissed. It has some time since i last spoke to her. How can a woman be this evil? I lost all of my friends from this situation and almost my life. I need some support from someone.

Edited by Brett Favre
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