On a break with girlfriend I met at work :/

[Gdguyfinisheslast]

Hi

 

So i have been in a relationship with a girl from the office for 3 months. Then recently the spark has disappeared. Decided to take a break for a couple of weeks as things been hectic at work. 2 days in i find out shes gone to dinner(no proof this was a date) with another guy from work and also recently found out from another work college they been texting each other constantly since. I do quite like this girl but feel shes being pretty disrespectful.

 

Do i

 

a) call her out on this and just calmly say its over, forget the break.

b) wait to see if anything actually happens. Go out and have some fun of my own.

 

Also if B should i ignore her / give her space.

 

c) other suggestions

[Elle1975]

Hi

 

So i have been in a relationship with a girl from the office for 3 months. Then recently the spark has disappeared. Decided to take a break for a couple of weeks as things been hectic at work. 2 days in i find out shes gone to dinner(no proof this was a date) with another guy from work and also recently found out from another work college they been texting each other constantly since. I do quite like this girl but feel shes being pretty disrespectful.

 

Do i

 

a) call her out on this and just calmly say its over, forget the break.

b) wait to see if anything actually happens. Go out and have some fun of my own.

 

Also if B should i ignore her / give her space.

 

c) other suggestions

 

A break means break up. Rarely is there such thing as a break. Especially in a relationship that is so young.

 

Just let it go, have fun.

[Cakess]

I thought breaks just meant you want to break up but don't want to hurt feelings. She knows its over anyway, so cut it loose and go out and have fun.