Joangel Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 I have been divorced for almost two years and so far I have had one dating disaster after another. First, I foolishly jumped into an eight month relationship with a guy who was on the rebound. Then, I was dumb enough to date a coworker. Since last fall I wised up and decided I won't date again until I find someone who is truly on my wave length. Now I have a new job, new mentality but I attracting the same old loser guys. I don't understand what I doing wrong. I carry myself as nicely as I can. I dress well and am polite. Meanwhile, the only men who approach me are "thug" types. One of my friends told me it's because I am biracial, but I don't thing race has anything to do with it. I would gladly welcome a black, white, or purple man if he were decent but they never come around. Where are all normal guy out there?
CarrieT Posted April 27, 2014 Posted April 27, 2014 It just takes time... During my time in OLD - in my 40s - I was single and dating for 2 1/2 years. In that time, I had over 200 online conversations and went on 50+ coffee meet-and-greets. I was also at my fittest and most attractive (I thought), dressed well, and was financially secure. Just relax and know that it will happen. 2
Author Joangel Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 I go out every day In my community as it's part of my work. I go to the dog park weekly. I also go to a lot of family events, fairs, concerts etc...you would think I would meet a nice single dad or something, but no. I am like a douche magnet. Sometimes I feel humiliated because these guys cat call while I am with my kids or call workers. Starting to get a complex. I have a Shapley figure but I don't dress provocatively. How can attract a "nice guy" ?
Author Joangel Posted April 27, 2014 Author Posted April 27, 2014 Not a bad part of town but very commercial. This is NY we have a little bit of everything. Thanks for tying but looks like it's just one of those unfortunate coincidences. My ex husband tells me I look like I'm from $. He is always worried that I look like an easy target, whatever that means. I also wonder if nice guys just don't have the nerve to approach women.
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