CopingGal Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I try and I try. I try to be open to new experiences. I try to be accepting. I try to be forgivng. NO matter what I do, I get my heart broken. I thought this time I had a chance....maybe this person would be good to me....seems like we were going in that direction, but he stopped contacting me. Thought I had offended him, but he doesn't want me. He called, every few days and texted me SEVERAL times a day. Told me he was coming back to town next month after doing his field work. But now that the day is coming, he doesn't want to talk to me. He told me he needed to take things very slowly if we dated. He got my hopes up and now he doesn't want me at all. I just give up. I took my name off the dating sites. I told myself if relationship blows up in my face one more time, I was going to give up. That day is here.
kodakgirl Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I'm not sure what kind of feedback you're looking for, but I'm sorry this fellow has made you feel that way. I know how difficult it is to try your hardest and still hit a wall. Unfortunately it's always going to happen sometimes when interacting with other people, because they are people and people don't always act rationally or well. I know knowing that doesn't really make it any better. I don't know your story but it sounds like you really need some time for yourself. I hope you can take a deep breath and a step back and do something (or many things) very kind for yourself. You are trying and that's all a person can do. Hugs to you. 2
Under The Radar Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 I'm sorry things didn't work out for you CopingGal, but I sincerely hope you don't give up. I've seen the quality person you are over the years transparent in a posting history that includes much help to complete strangers. Getting back on the horse is tough, but when you are ready, I'd like to see you climb back on and give it another go. Don't lose hope ...... you are too great a catch for that.
regine_phalange Posted April 26, 2014 Posted April 26, 2014 It's okay to feel overwhelmed after something didn't work out. Take your time. Also, next time don't struggle to be accepting, forgiving etc. Pay more attention on how much of a good time you have with the person, and how nice being around that person makes you feel. If his behaviour makes you feel uneasy or dissapointed or, or or... Then he is not for you. Chin up!
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